Many of those dying people are being killed because they are gay. Their priorities are justified and many thanks to the Obama Administration for doing what's good and right.
Seriously, the bigot homophobes should sit down and quietly contemplate how they got to be such hateful people.
Reason 2200 your post was intersting anf I to am tired of homosexuality being crammed down everyones throats. There are far more kids who are bullied for reasons other than being homosexual but the homosexual kids who do are pushed forward in the media. All bullying should stop no matter what the reason but one child is not more important than another or at least thats the way it should be but isnt.
I completely disagree with this being brought into the schools without parents knowledge. It is disgusting that this agenda is more important than the kids emotional well being. We do not even bring sexuality into the classroom until the kids learn about it in middle school and parents should have the right to decide what they do or don't want taught to their child. it all just plain sickening!
it seems like all the problems are caused by the haters (hint hint). wake up and step into the 21st century. and if you can't manage to do that, keep your bigoted, holier than thou, mentally and spiritually challenged thoughts to yourself.
Hmmm, mentally and spiritually challenged. By that statement are you not just as bigoted as they are. So they in your mind do not have freedon of speech? You do!
Wow, this must be the string related to the ignorants who really should have visited other areas for comments, since most of their comments seem to want to deflect the purpose of the article: HUMAN RIGHTS FOR GAYS.
Yes, there (proper spelling) are people dying of starvation, people dying of religious persecution, dying because they are a woman. Why is it that gay people don't deserve attention to the fact that they, too, are dying from sexual orientation?
Do yourselves a favor, if you don't want to pay attention to this issue, go ahead and donate to your favorite cause and let the rest of us celebrate the fact that we have a president that can MULTI-TASK. Thank the Lord!!!!
Sex is for two things in my opinion. Reproduction, and enjoyment. Since homosexual intercourse is not for reproduction, I think it's fair to say their interactions are for leisure.
Watching baseball is something you do for leisure. Playing video games is for leisure. I'm all for treating people equally, but I get tired of this "in your face" junk. Your sexual preference is a HOBBY, not a LIFESTYLE. I mean, if your orientation is natural in your mind, fine, so be it. But trying to force recognition as a "community" or a "people" as if you're a persecuted race seems a bit over the top to me. If you are the way you are just for being born, fine, come to terms with it and accept it. But needing the world to acknowledge you, demanding special rights, etc smacks of you needing others to make you feel legitimate. I am heterosexual, I have been married for years and have a child. I don't lead rallies or speak in the third person about the "heterosexual community," etc. I am how I am and leave it at that. Gays try too hard to push agendas, that's what bugs me. Just like this UN thing. It means nothing, accomplishes nothing, and is non binding. It's just an announcement of "hey, we're cool with gays, please vote for us in 2012."
Your logic is terrible. Gays are not trying to gain any level of rights over Heterosexuals; rather they only want to be equal to everyone else: by having the right to marry who they want. Until you provide a rational reason for why Gays (and Lesbians) should not be allowed to marry, other than "they're gaining more rights than us", you can reply.
As for the rest of you, all you are doing is using circular logic, by saying "homosexuality is not normal, therefore it's not normal".
Specifically to Reason2200: When you learn to argue rather than just quote something from some random blog, then you can reply.
Specifically to MNAmericanMom, children in schools need to know that it is not OK to make fun of someone just because they prefer another sex. Or are you justifying the many who have committed SUICIDE because of being taunted for their sexuality?
I'm wondering, do you four (including Milo) have some pact where you up-vote each other as to "look more popular"?
So what about sterile couples, Russell? Should they be allowed to be hanged in the streets for acting on their natural urge to have sex, even if they cannot make a child?
Russellm...I appreciate that you are all for treating people equally and that if my orientation is natural in my mind "so be it". But imagine, if you will, that you're an American citizen....you work, you pay your taxes, you are an upstanding member of your community and you fall in love. You want to take the next step in your relationship and get married but you can't...it's not allowed. You see all your family, friends and neighbors able to do so but that's a right not available to you. How would that make you feel? Less than? Would you feel that it's unfair that you pay your taxes yet are denied rights that are given to others? THAT'S why we push our agenda and speak at rallies and try to feel legitimate. YOU don't have to because you don't NEED to.
The world added nearly a billion people in just the past decade, yet bigots argue that marriage equality will doom the species. That's freakin' funny. There's not a legitimate, moral or truthful argument to continue discrimination.
Your argument is analogous to saying that racially segregated schools and businesses are fine, since all people can go into businesses and attend schools, even if it's not ALL businesses and schools. It's just plain old flawed logic.
Several of you:
This "the gay agenda is being forced down our throats" argument is one of the weakest arguments that's ever existed. Either the gay rights movement is right or it's not - that is, either gay rights are good or bad. If you think they're bad, say so - and accept that you're against gay rights. If you think they're good, then there's no predetermined pace for these things to move at.
If you're one of those people who says "well I'm fine with gays but I'm sick of seeing them and hearing about them", why should they have to hide what they are because it makes you uncomfortable? If blacks make you uncomfortable, do they have to stay indoors for your enjoyment? You argue that they have to thrust themselves in your faces (figuratively speaking) - this is a society absolutely OBSESSED with heterosexual sexuality and marriage. Weddings are a multibillion dollar industry. People wear wedding rings. The news is dominated by reports of celebrity dating and relationships. You can't go ANYWHERE in public without seeing a heterosexual couple "flaunting" their lifestyle. Double standards are for the weak-minded. Get over it.
As always, most of the people commenting didn't even read the article (in other words you're just trolling).
This issue has nothing to do with gay marriage or additional special rights. It was to do with basic human rights not being afforded across the board to ALL humans.
You say 'gays getting beat up and killed'. What about non gays? I don't see you preaching about them.
Maybe I am just old fashioned, but since when does everything revolve around your sexual choice in life?
It seems to me that if you are gay, and illegal alien and a minority you pretty much have your life and your rights bought and paid for by those of us who actually have morals and values.
1. The article is about gay rights. Just because we care about the safety and well being of gay people, that does not exclude us from caring about others who go through the same things. However, THIS article is about gays, ergo, we're addressing gays.
2. Please explain how you're paying for their life and rights. Are you suggesting that every person in those categories is on welfare? If someone is illegal, you aren't paying anything for them, because they can't receive it. If you're so-called "paying" for their rights, then where are they? Why would we even be having this conversation if you've already done this.
3. Are you implying that the only people who have morals are heterosexual, legal, white, men? Women, blacks, gays, latinos, asians, indians, native americans, none of them have morals? Those are all minorities and you claim that their, "life and rights are bought and paid for by those of us who actually have morals." That directly implies that you think all those groups don't have them.
4. Is it moral to make generallizations? Is it moral to discriminate? Is it moral to deny others the rights you enjoy based on who they are and not what they've done? Please name a time a gay person has in some way injured you and caused damage, just by being gay. In what substantial, proven way would you be harmed if gay's had equal rights.
5. Name one right you will lose by gays gaining theirs?
For every religious anti-homosexual quote you can pull from the Bible, I can pull one pertaining to love, compassion, and acceptance.
My apologies to the good white men (and in some cases women) out there, I'm sure you far outnumber the idiots, but it seems to me that demographic does an awful lot of whining. Minorities aren't taking away your rights, shoving stuff down your throat, or changing a single iota of your lives. All they're asking for is to enjoy the same benefits and rights you have, based on the same reason you have for being entitled to them, that being HUMANITY.
P.S. They hold rallies, parades... because they are trying to bring to attention the fact that they are still being denied rights and looked at as second class citizens, or under a veil of judgmental, faux, morality. That's not shoving it down your throat. You don't do those things, because you ALREADY HAVE what they're asking for.
Sarah, I was not bit ching or whining. My comment stands.
If I were gay, what would really change in my life? Answer is nothing other than who I sleep with at night.
I would go to work, earn a living, pay taxes, go out for dinner and so on.
The fact they feel the need to have a parade is crazy. People all know that not everyone is straight, who gives a rats butt? Sleep with you dog Fido for all I care, just don't bring those views into my life, expect me to accept you for your choices if they are not within my views of what is moral and Christian.
You, and others, expect that in some way or form I HAVE to accept and agree with your lifestyles. I don't. I don't hate you (or a gay person) for what they do, but for you to (excuse the pun) shove it down my throat, then it's you who are wrong.
Do what you want with your life. You don't have to answer to me and I am NOT your judge and jury when you die.
However, I do expect that my children shouldn't have to be exposed to YOUR choice in life as normal or accepted when it shouldn't be.
We can preach about acceptance all day long and I would agree with you on most points. The issue is that if at the end of the day I don't agree with a gay persons life choice, somehow I am the bad guy. I am not. I don't hate gays, I don't discriminate against gay people or go out of my way to make their lives harder than it already is.
Its just a lifestyle I don't accept, will never accept as anything other than an abomination but again, I am not the person you need to impress so it really shouldn't bother you and or anyone else on what my views are.
Preaching to my kids about this lifestyle is another story. This goes against what I teach as a parent and regardless of what you or anyone else thinks, it's my morals and values I care to pass along to them, not yours or that of a gay lifestyle.
The fact that you and the gay community is all but forcing me to read about them, see their lifestyles on sesame street and other shows is forcing YOUR views on my kids.
How about we stop whining about YOUR rights and take a look at what mine are as a parent and a heterosexual human being who is tired of all the forced acceptance the gay community forces on my life daily.
If I were gay, what would really change in my life? Answer is nothing other than who I sleep with at night.
Completely missing the point of the UN proposal. Yes, your statement would be true in most parts of the U.S., but it is not so abroad.
The fact that you and the gay community is all but forcing me to read about them, see their lifestyles on sesame street and other shows is forcing YOUR views on my kids.
And someone is forcing you to post about it? If you don't want this in your face, why are you even reading this thread? If anything complain to MSNBC for posting it.
Teaching your morals to your kids has nothing to do with exposure. If they are not exposed to it now, they will be exposed to it later. Unless you plan to keep them in your basement with all access to the outside world restricted, that is. Hiding things will not make them go away.
Hmm, nobody is forcing me to post about and likewise nobody is forcing you to post the opposing view. I can't believe you went there, but ok. I am more than willing to point out the obvious to those who can't see it in front of them.
Morals to my kids have everything to do with exposure. When I teach them one thing and media (even the news articles) is constantly showing this lifestyle as the 'norm', there is a huge issue with exposure. Again, obvious, but you failed to see it.
And I am not hiding anything, I just don't feel they need to be desensitized by shows, songs, news, parades and the list goes on and on. The shows on tv today would have never been accepted 20 years ago. Does that mean we are more accepting of these or that we have just been desensitized by violence, sexuality and the other sensitive issue's we face? From what I have read it's most likely both.
Would you feel the same if there were more of an acceptance for beastiality? Parades of people who love their animals (literally), tv shows showing it's ok, people like you posting that I should accept it without question and your kids seeing this constantly as the norm? Yea, I thought so.... But, hey, sexual preference is sexual preference, right?
nobody is forcing me to post about and likewise nobody is forcing you to post the opposing view
Therefore reinforcing my point.
Would you feel the same if there were more of an acceptance for beastiality?
Now there is a bad comparison. Bestiality is the sexual abuse of animals for human pleasure. In this matter the animal has no say, that is equal to rape. A homosexual relationship on the other is consensual, if it is not consensual then it is rape as well. (Next thing you will probably bring up is pedophilia I am sure, to which the same argument applies, it is rape, and has nothing to do with homosexuality.)
And about your choice of words ('sexual preference' and 'lifestyle') I see where you are coming from. You are assuming that being homosexual is a choice. And in light of that, am I to assume you are choosing (prefer) to be straight, but you are sexually attracted to both men and women?
I believe the use of drugs to be wrong, yet they still show it in the news and in TV shows, some even glorify it. Yet, not seeing it will not stop drug use from happening, or from affecting the life of my kids at some point in their life. Just as seeing it will not hinder my ability to teach my kids that it is morally wrong.
Patrick, I absolutely LOVE how you just skip over anything you can't refute and go right on to completely miss the @!$%#ing point. Like every other god damn conservative @!$%# I've ever seen arguing on this subject. Or, hell, any subject. You don't have anything to back your side up, and for your information, you can't just label an issue as objective. You can't just say "Oh well I don't believe what you believe so you have to respect my opinion too." I'm going to say this as slowly as I can so you MIGHT understand some of it
THIS. IS. A. HUMAN. RIGHTS. ISSUE.
If you don't understand what that implies, then @!$%# you AND your family. Schools are not required to say anything regarding homosexuality, but you know what? If it negates the dumbass views that you force on your kids, I say @!$%#ing go for it, because as far as I'm concerned you don't have anything worthwhile to offer as a parent. You go ahead and teach your kids that "faggots are disgusting" and see what happens. When he gets in trouble for beating up a gay kid, you go ahead and @!$%#ing congratulate him. You lack the capability to think the @!$%# ahead and see what your actions and your message do to those around you, and THIS is EXACTLY why some people don't believe in free speech. Thank you so @!$%#ing much for furthering that cause, you god damn worthless @!$%#stain of a human being. Next time, READ THE DAMN ARTICLE BEFORE YOU POST.
alexreffrand, you are one hostile, angry person. The "dumbass views" you speak of, are views we teach our children for their future. Who put you in charge to even speak of them as "dumbass views"? How did you become the supreme ruler of all humans, to make such a strong decision that our views are no good, and yours are worthy? I think Patrick has made some very valid points. I think you are doing nothing but venting your anger because everyone is not bending to your way of thinking. There is probably no honest way to tell EXACTLY how many folks really agree with the homosexual lifestyle, but if we were all to be honest about it, it would be a small number. The media has duped the public to think there are large numbers of "normal" homosexuals, and many gullible people believe you want only your fair shake (they're called "liberal - minded adults"). We had a "gay pride parade" parade in our town last year, and there were homos walking the streets in their underpants, grabbing their crotch at every turn. There were many small children present. They (according to their leader) were "celebrating and honoring the gay lifestyle". That has nothing to do with asking for equal rights as American citizens. Nearly everything I see that is related to homosexuals, has a negative connotation to it. You are attacking the wrong people - the average citizen has nothing to do with your rights - go to your congressmen and demand your rights as an American citizen, not as a homosexual. You might actually have better luck.
Patrick, therein lays the crux of the problem... "your choice as moral and accepted WHEN IT SHOULDN'T BE". Your self appointment of judge, jury, and God. Again, you've failed to make a substantive argument for how this is effecting you. Lemme guess, you see it as a break down in society that will lead to all sorts of depravity and evil? Oops, that's not a legal claim, you can't deny rights based on what MIGHT happen. That's a big no no, and by the way completely paranoid.
Answer this...
How is it fair that, because you don't want your children to see/hear about it, gay people shouldn't be represented on tv or Sesame Street?
If that's how you feel, can't you just change the station? Having to push a button on the remote is more damaging to you then the delegation of second class citizenship is to a large amount of the population?
I've yet to hear anyone tell you how to raise your children. Personally, I hope they see through your thinly veiled bigotry, but by all means raise them to be as hateful and judgmental as you want.
When that hate and judgment starts effecting people's rights as citizens is when I have a problem with it. This might be shocking to you, but not everyone in this country shares your "morals", and therefore they do NOT get to dictate who may or may not do what. The law looks at us, or should look at us, stripped of all excess baggage (ie gender, sexual preference, color, religion). There is no room in the law for religous morals/judgments. And you can spew that crap about the 10 commandments being the basis for all law if you want. There's a reason why adultry and idol worship aren't addressed in secular law, because they are personal moral choices.
What else makes your life style more "correct" then a happily married gay couple? Can you answer without relying on your personal concept of morality? Can you give a substantive legal argument based on reasoning, precedent, or past experience? Until you can, you don't have much of a case.
Last question...
If tomorrow the world turned upside down and gay people ruled the earth, how would you feel when your marriage was annulled and not recognized? Your children made illigetimate? You couldn't be named next of kin on any of your wife's documents and vice versa? And all this happened, not because you harmed anyone, but because you made the choice to love someone?
Hiya bill. How are ya? Bad, I'm guessing. Hell, if I were you, I'd be downright depressed. See, your dumbass views (and I call them that because, well, you're a dumbass, and they are in fact your views) are not supported by, well, any research that has been done in the past fifteen years. In fact, all you have is your own word, which, honestly, means exactly @!$%# in court. And I'm certain you know that. You're perfectly aware of what you're saying, and deep down you know there's no logic behind your dislike for gays. But that doesn't matter to you, because admitting that is admitting you're wrong, and dammit, you just can't do that, can you? Honestly, I'm more amused than offended, and do you know why? I'll bet you do, but I'm making this comment for my pleasure, so I'll spell it out for you anyway.
You have no say in any of this.
Yep, you have no right to limit my rights, and you have no power to do so. Isn't that great? Don't you just @!$%#ing love it? Really, all you are is some douchebag homophobe who has nothing better to do with his time than to troll. Really, the fact that you have no friends to occupy your time with is something you should be more focused on, but I'm grateful you aren't, because it shows everyone else the kind of person you are. Go ahead, respond to this. Keep proving my point. Show everyone here how @!$%#ing stupid you and everyone who shares your ideals really is.
Patrick said "Sleep with you dog Fido for all I care, just don't bring those views into my life, expect me to accept you for your choices if they are not within my views of what is moral and Christian."
Patrick, if this is really the case that you just don't care who's gay but don't want it being talked about then you need to stop talking about your wife and kids at work because that tells me you are heterosexual. If it is ok to talk about your wife then it should be ok for me to talk about my husband. You stop talking about it and then I will, too.
Patrick said "a heterosexual human being who is tired of all the forced acceptance the gay community forces on my life"
Patrick, for a person who holds personal responsibility as a high standard you aren't really taking responsibility for your own actions. You want the government to protect you in cases of media, etc. If you don't like something in the media, TURN IT OFF. No one is forcing you to watch TV, movies or read the newspaper or drive downtown during a parade. If you are teaching your kids responsibility yet you yourself neglect your control of the media coming into your home, you are a complete hypocrite as an adult and a parent. Good luck to your kids... they'll need it.
Besides keep your lifestyle to yourself and stop talking about your breeding program.
Uh, homosexuality is a consistent and common trait in every population of humans, and most species of other mammals. That means it's not anti-survival and it's not a defect.
Dennis - I understand the anti-survival concept, however, do not believe this to be biologically correct. animals share resources like food with their immediate genetic relatives. based on how close the genetic resemblance is the larger the fraction we are willing to share. Thus gay animals are less likely to reproduce but VERY significantly increase survival odds for offspring of closely related brother and sister progeny.
I find it an embarrasement myself , this tolerance crap sucks , and I'm done with it , gay should be considered a mental disorder , not a new class of human being
Just ignore John. He is a bigot and a homophobe, and the mods will probably deal with him.
There is not a single rational argument for why homosexuality is bad. Not one. I invite Spanky, JoAnna, and Madison to come here and do there best to prove me wrong. Which of course, they will not.
well steve when her recliner goes through the painful labor of becoming an Ameican Citizen or even just an Fng human being with the ability to supply informed consent we will recognize that the relaitonship they hold is just as valid, worthwhile, and holy as anyone else's. Till then maybe you should take a logic class and realize how to anyone with an education who understand philosophy and logic you sound like a complete imbecile right now.
Touched off a nerve, did I, Ubersnoofer? You know nothing of what's valid, worthwhile and holy, and if you really know the sound of what's imbecilic, then you obviously have been reading your own comments out loud for a long time.
While Gays do deserve equal treatment under the law regardless of their country of origin, I find fault with Obama in that this is strictly a publicity stunt to further his far left agenda that in the end will his agenda will strip many American citizens of constitutional rights that conflict with the Democrat party.
I. E. The right to bear arms, not to mention forcing the middle class to pay for others health-care.
Folks irregardless of his public jargon, you can rest assure yourself he has a hidden agenda. That agenda is not in the best interest of hard working, tax paying middle, right and left US of America.
Milo, "irregardless" is not a word--it's a double negative used by people who are stupid. Also, "forcing the middle class to pay for others health-care" is not a constitutional issue as you imply.
There is nothing far left about human rights. Your thoughts are a mess. Just stick to the subject.
Milo - nice piece of point missing, there. Actually, "Obamacare" does the exact opposite of forcing anyone to pay for anyone's health care. It makes people responsible for their own (penalizes if they don't have it). Currently, most Americans who can't afford health care don't have it, so they get treatment and stick taxpayers with the bill. So, in a way, the current model does what you are accusing Obama of doing. See, you learned something today?
As for the right to bear arms, I wish people would just shut the he11 up about guns. Seriously. Who the he11 cares? So many crucial issues to deal with, and you're going to screech and howl about someone taking away your assault rifle?
Stupid you say, LOL Try sticking to the subject yourself. Calling anyone stupid, speaks of you own lack of self esteem and most of all your own stupidity.
Actually I like D** S*** like your self, your condescending attitude is entertaining.
Why? you find self esteem/self worth in belittling others by pointing out minor grammar errors and such.
You sound like a very negative person yourself.
As for paying for others, I say yyou liberal Dumbocrats are in for a hard lesson. I for one intend to block your freebie agenda every step of the way.
Working for a living is guite the liberating experience, try it.
David in Boston-1546942@ First issue is how do you figure anything is a "right". Its a nice gesture to donate to help others, but when you steal from one person that is indeed a leftist agenda. Working to pay your own way is a right in a capitalist economy, stealing the results of someone elses work is not. As I said, helping others is civilized but theft whether by individual or government is wrong.
Not self-righteous at all, I just hate it when bigots deny PEOPLE basic RIGHTS because of their prejudices. Nothing wrong with that, is there? Nothing insecure about me, my friend, I could give a rat's behind whether you're a better man than me, again, I just hate it when people without a clue lord over others with their misinformation and prejudice.
milo - why must standing up for equality be a leftist publicity stunt? i think standing up for basic civil rights is just a good thing to do, but since obama is doing that the entire right wing will denounce his actions as a "publicity stunt". so ridiculous. i would also like to hear what you have to say about this "hidden agenda" you speak of and what exactly that entails
also, what indication has there been that he is going interfere with your 2nd amendment rights? if you actually believe that then you should start hoarding weapons in preparation for the final battle against the government like all the other tim mcveigh wannabes out there. although based on your incoherent ramblings youve probably already started doing that
Nicely said papag. And, as much as I am standing up for gay people's rights, and pushing back against empty Obama-slagging, I do think it's a bit hollow for the US to be talking about gay rights when gay people can't even get married in the US. Still, every little inch in the evolutionary ladder helps.
Milo, when you say terms like "Dumbocrats" and "Obombo", you instantly lose all credibility. Face it: you have no argument. All you do is personally attack those who validly refute your faulty "points".
Obama has never tried to do any of the things you accused him of. I'm not saying he's uninsultable, but exaggerating facts without basis is not arguing.
But I don't feel sorry for you. No, I feel sorry for the 4 (3, if you voted for yourself) people who actually up-voted your comment.
Our country has absolutely no credibility or respect left in the world! The world is falling apart and this "big eared" imbecile seeks to push perversion on the other nations of the world! There are many nations in our world that do not condone perversion and they have every right to continue to treat homos as they wish, to hell with progressives that condone filthy acts against nature, acts against decency, and indecent acts against humanity! How can we legalize "acts" that are against the law to be shown in public? Every human should have to watch the actual act, with all its' filth, pain, and repulsiveness and then let them decide if they desire if they want this mess taught to their children as a viable lifestyle!
You think heterosexual sex is really any different? Legal, I think you're the filthy act against nature. Now be a good 'ol boy and get back to that backwoods shack of yours before night falls and the bigfoot gits ya.
The other nations of the world embrace homosexuality, allowing marriage, military service, adoption, elected leaders...oh...you mean those Islamic nations don't like it.
And you think we'd be much better off if we were more like those countries? Kill the gays, women can't work, drive or even show thier face and everybody under the thumb of the high priest. I hope everybody in Texas isn't as stupid as that.
legaltexasbigot, people should have to watch the act? You mean gay people living as a couple, raising kids, paying taxes, going to movies and restaurants, saving for retirement, etc? Ewww! Or, do you mean that people should be forced to watch gay sex? I don't know you, but I'm pretty sure watching you and the missus bump uglies would turn me off solid food for a while too. You don't want to watch gay sex, stop downloading it. Once you get past what gay people do with their genitals, maybe you'll have the capacity to start talking about their rights as people.
Why when someone does not agree that homosexuality is normal do people post issues of womens rights, bring up past issues, and lump it with issues entirely different and not related?
Goparefools- You are the one obsessed with your genitals not Legal Texanlegal, he is pretty clear on what he thinks and your the one that is phobic about his opinion. There is absolutely no medical evidenc supporting that anal sex is natural. NONE
American mom, I am calling him out for making the issue about sex, and you think I have the problem? Wow. Why not just call me a stupid-head and plug your ears and stamp your feet? Anal sex may not be natural if reproduction is the sole purpose of becoming a couple, but plenty of straight people do it, too. Oral sex is reproductively unnecessary, so I guess unnatural, but it's okay for straights to have at 'er? Intimacy and sexual gratification is an essential part of forming bonds as a couple. That is perfectly natural. You're not OK with the back door, that's fine. Don't do it. Also, a funny aside, did you know that a huge number of straight christian kids do it in the back door because they think they will get to keep their virginity, and Jesus won't cry? Then they go and get a bunch of STIs or STDs because their bigot parents refused to let them have any sexual education (knowing about your body is a tool of the devil, or progressives, apparently). Funny, eh? Your kids are probably doing the stuff you condemn gay people for.
Until now, the Bostonians I've met seemed to be pretty intelligent. And then David in Boston came along. This certainly is a leftist party game our President is playing. Just buying more votes to continue his assault on this country.
goparefools where so you get the authority to speak for straight christian kids? Do they tell you this or is it assumed because many gays hate religious people apparently because they feel unaccepted by the church. So again where did you pull this information from.
I worked as a nurse for 18 years and I am here to tell you I can't come up with one straight christian kid from our community that had STD's, anal tears, or anal sphincters that were stretched.
To clarify my stance, I think what 2 consenting adults do in their bedroom is up to them and as far as I am concerned keep it there. If you choose an alternative lifestyle because that is exactly what it is, then don't try cramming it down my throat and try to convince me that it is natural because there is no medical evidence that it is. I also don't need to march in a parade to prove or convince my community that I am normal. Nor do I have to announce my sexuality to convince myself that I am normal. I completely agree that it is inappropriate to teach this to elementary kids and parents should have the right to review any materials their child will be taught on ANY issue and opt out if they choose.
I am also tired of the spotlight being on kids who commit suicide that are gay, far more kids who aren't gay commit suicide from bullying. Gay children are equally as important as straight children, not more important. All bullying needs to stop.
American mom, why do you people need to make sex the issue. Look at posts here, and on Fox News. It's all about sex. No one talks about the horror of a gay man borrowing library books using his partner's card. No one gets all in a lather about a gay woman wanting to sit in the hospital room as her partner of 30 years dies of cancer. Guess what, SHE CAN'T! She isn't allowed to comfort her dying life partner! Because Of PEOPLE LIKE YOU who pretend that they don't care what them gays do, as long as they keep it in the bedroom.
No, no, y'all rail and screech about the perversion, and the oiled up bodies and the short shorts. Gay people CAN'T GET MARRIED. They can't get the same rights straight people take for granted, and many misuse.
As for god's chosen people and the highway, try this:
"Several studies have found that many teenagers who consider themselves true to their virginity pledge still engage in anal or oral sex. Since they don't believe that these forms of sex affect their virginity, teens don't worry that they might violate their pledge.
Furthermore, at least one study has found that teenagers who have engaged in oral and/or anal sex, but not vaginal sex, were more likely to have taken a virginity pledge. This may be one explanation for why that same study of virginity pledges found that pledgers have similar STD rates to those who don't.
Not surprisingly, since virginity pledges are often a component of abstinence-only education, it was also found, in at least one study, that individuals who take virginity pledges are less likely to use condoms the first time they have intercourse than those who don't pledge."
Brückner, H. and Bearman P. "After the promise: the STD consequences of adolescent virginity pledges" Journal of Adolescent Health 36 (2005) 271–278. Nicole Stone, "Oral sex and condom use among young people in the United Kingdom" Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health (2006) 38(1). Lisa Remez "Oral Sex Among Adolescents:Is It Sex or Is It Abstinence?"Family Planning Perspectives (2000) 32(6):298-304. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Sexually Transmitted Disease Surveillance 2005 Supplement, Gonococcal Isolate Surveillance Project (GISP)Annual Report 2005. Atlanta, GA: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, January 2007.
Actually soutenly, I'm straighter than you could ever aspire to be. Straight enough that I have absolutely no qualms about gay people having every bit the same rights I do. Remember back when inter-racial marriages weren't allowed? I am sure if these chat board has existed then, you would see some atrocious opinions here regarding the colored man defiling good white women, and god's wrath and so on. You can mock me all you want, in the morning when I wake up, I will be an accepting person who wants people to be judged as people, while you will be a petty, bitter bigot who wants to hide behind your mock horror at what "them gays is doing." All the gay couples I know are decent, loving people, who get treated like CRAP by you christians. Shame on all of you.
goparefools- Back off bucko I already stated what you do in your bedroom is up to you as long as the other adult is consenting to the same. I really do not care nor do I need you to tell me anymore than you want to hear about what happens in my bedroom. Problem is I don't tell but gay people seem to think telling will make it normal...it is not normal sorry.
I have argued til I am blue that I will never support gay marriage...not ever. Marriage is the union of a man and a woman under god and just cause it does not fit your agenda or what you want the majority of people to believe and accept as normal your not going to dominate and change what I think and believe. My religious beliefs and the core values of what I believe is the foundation for family and hold dear are at stake here. I have a right to my convictions and you do not have the right to force me to alter them to suit you. Go ahead and do what ever you feel froggy to do in your own bedroom and choose whatever partner you wish to reside with but I do not want to hear about it nor do I think that the gay population have the right to have homosexuality taught to our children in the elementry schools when sex education isnt taught to them until middle school because it is not considered age appropriate until then. Something wrong with that dont ya think? to young to learn about their own bodies and hetrosexual sex until HS but old enough to learn that homosexuality is ok in elementary school...WOW F---ed up or what!
I am in FULL support of allowing a civil union between gay couples. That union should include the rights that a married couple have. No I dont think a gay person should be told they cant be present if their partner is sick and/or dying. In fact I have never heard that the patient does not have the right to choose who sits beside them. The patient has very clear rights. As far as most legal issues their are powers of attorney, beneficiary rights etc... that do allow gay couples to have rights from their partners.
As far as your knowledge of teen sex let me help you along there. Oral sex is what they are doing to remain virgins and studies show that the majority are opposite sex couples doing this. The minority are gay teens and as far as anal sex thats where the majority of that behavior lies as well, with the gay teens.
Mom - Back off? Hey, I'm not the one making this topic about what gay people do to get off, y'all are, I am just throwing it back at you.
Civil unions should include the same rights, but do not. Not even close. That's the problem. Some of the rights can be sued for, or petitioned for, but they have to go get a lawyer. Some hospitals still, as a matter of course, won't let "them dirty gays" be the next of kin. A gay person who has a civil union in one state is not "cilvilly unionized" in the next state, so as long as they stay home, they are legitimate. Ridiculous.
Straight people get these rights IN ALL CASES, even when a couple gets married for money, or divorces ten times and keeps marrying, or has multiple sex partners while married, or.... you get the idea. As long as the couple has different junk, god's OK? Please.
My wife and I weren't married in a church, or by a religious figure. Does this mean I'm not married? My dad and his wife were too old to start a family, so their marriage isn't for procreation. Does this mean they're not really married?
The only mention I have given about what gay people do in their bedrooms is in response to the jackass comments from some of your brethren here. If we're going to talk about the real issue, gay rights (please, let's just stop bringing up the bedroom... can conservatives PLEASE stop talking about gay sex?!), then there is a discussion to be had.
Context is everything. A parent with a huge prejudice towards gay people will make up all kinds of crazy stuff about "them gays" coming to teach kids how to be gay, when the school district probably just wanted to take a step towards inclusiveness, and invite a gay couple in to describe their lives. Just like straight couples. Nothing to fear here. Yet, somehow, it gets distorted to the gays coming to talk about anal sex and show the kids a live sex show. Its ridiculous.
Y'all get so hung up on what gay people do in bed that you refuse to see that these are people who just want to be left alone, once they have the same rights you do.
And what the he11 do you mean about gay people pushing to get "the gay" taught in schools? It is an evolved, inclusive school district that wants to teach kids that gay people are in your community, they are nothing to fear, move along. If the next generation can unlearn some of what the current generation is teaching them, there is a hope that the country can aspire to something approaching a christian ideal.
I think it is perfectly OK for kids to have age-appropriate information about sex (how to avoid being victimized, what is bad touching, how to respect their bodies, etc, then moving on to what kinds of couples are in your community, then moving on to biological functions when kids get old enough that they need to protect themselves). That isn't a live sex show for first graders, that is common sense. Parents clearly aren't doing the job, and they sure as hell ain't getting it from their pastor... so....?
Sad you seem to believe you have the handle on what American parents should but arent teaching their children. It is their children and they, not you, have the right to decide what and when to teach their children. As far as bringing a couple into the classroom to let them explain their lifestyle to the kids it is up to the parent to approve that. Not you or the school. Do you see them bringing in hetrosexual couples and doing the same? No. Do elementary children need to think about what life style they will choose? NO. Should they start considering what sex they will consider as their life partner? NO. Do you give a rip about the emotional well being or confusion this may cause a child that age who is going home to Mommy and Daddy and does not understand or is emotionally capable of sorting it out that Mommy and Mommy came to school to say that this is how couples should be? NO. What a shame it is that you see that as a positive thing. I completely disagree with you. Leave the frickin kids alone.
Another thing is that you continue to speak out against it being distingusished as a sexual difference in the bedroom. What the hell is it if not a sexual difference. Humor me here but the only thing that distingishes a homosexual or heterosexual couple is that heterosexual couples have sex with opposite sex partners and homosexual couples have same sex partners so how do you leave sex out of it?
Wow, soutenly, you sound like a real charmer. Your post shows you to be so unbelievably bitter, it's kind of sad. What happened to you, man?
Also, seriously, you're going to whip out your salary? Tiny junk, or something? At ease, buddy.
I am an Enemy of America (TM)? Man, your irrational wholesale hostility is what's wrong with America today. It ain't me, skippy. I am one of those liberal bleeding hearts who wants the country to look out for each other, be inclusive and treat each other with respect. My sole axe to grind is with bigots, but I think that's fair.
Seriously, man, I think you need to have a good talk with someone about your bitterness before you end up in a bell tower exercising your completely misinterpreted second amendment rights.
Mom - I am assuming you're married. What percentage of your day do you spend having sex? Small percentage, I'd wager. Your married life is full of stuff like paying bills, raising kids, getting haircuts and buying cars. Why... WHY?!?!?!?!... must you bring it back to sex for gay people? WHY!!!!!???? Just leave the issue alone. Can you seriously drop it? Do you think gay people spend the whole day dancing around in short cutoffs and shiny muscle shirts and having sex?
I know you know this, but I'll play along anyway. The reason straight people aren't brought in to discuss their lives is because straight people don't need to overcome massive prejudice and misinformation. Married people are the norm, so most kids understand straight couples. If kids' understanding of gay couples is the ridiculous bile their parents spew, then it is important to de-stigmatize gay relationships for kids to be more aware and informed.
If parents are given an opportunity to go to the school and yell and tip over tables about "them gays" coming in, that is actually a symptom of the disease that these exercises in inclusiveness are trying to reverse. One step forward, two steps back.
I think helping kids understand that gay people aren't the cartoon demons their parents want them to be IS positive. How could it not be? And if a classroom full of kids learns that gay people aren't the devil, the one or two kids who might be gay don't need to feel like they are evil, the kids in their class won't give a rat's behind if they find out their classmate is struggling with their sexual identity, and no one gets beat up for being a "faggot." That's bad? Seriously? Wow.
Well hell then if you want them to be raised with the sole intention to make sure they don't have the ideals of their parents then all heterosexuals who have children maybe should have them ripped away so we can teach them all that homosexuality is right and their parents ideals are wrong. Wow talk about a man on a mission. Who do you think you are deciding what parents should teach their kids? Just because someone does not agree with homosexuality you have some warped ideal that parents teach hatred and prejudice rather than simply stating that these people live differently than we do withour hatred involved. Not possible in your world huh?
I do agree with teaching tolerance and strongly support a no tolerance policy for ANY bullying of ANY cchild for ANY reason but you again have placed the gay childs well being as more important than the kid with red hair who is beat up daily trying to walk home because of his hair color. Hell he isn't gay so get to the back of the line right? Cold day in hell that I will support one form of bullying as being more important than another. Seriously? WOW?
I think you need to read many posts on newsvine and realize that many gay people are very prejudiced toward christians. You want to talk about hatred. I am certain you see that as being fine because those big bad christians don't agree with gay marriage. Thank you so much you have deepened my convictions and beliefs further.
No, the gay child's well being should be no higher than the straight child's, but it should be no lower. This is what I am fighting for. No fewer rights for straight people to live as they wish, provided their lives don't limit others' rights. The point is that gay people are overcoming enormous prejudice, and straight people are not.
Once it doesn't matter AT ALL whether a married couple is gay or straight, I think the work is done. Trouble is, there are still plenty of people in the US who get right uppity on the subject of colored people marrying white people, so... really... will we ever get there? Sad, really.
Are you seriously going to whine about gay people being prejudiced against christians? Do you not know why? Honestly? If I had been subjected to systemic hatred, and being told I am going to hell, and am diseased and am destroying america, by a group of people who figure they have the market cornered on righteousness, I'd have a chip on my shoulder too. So would you. If you say you wouldn't resent it, you're lying. If Muslims were the majority in the US, and their lives were dedicated to stamping out the dirty Christians, would you be prejudiced against Muslims? Oh, wait, most Christians already ARE!
Please, don't even pretend to play the victim on that one.
I know many christians who are really cool, loving accepting people. I hate bigots. I have said that about five times now. Seriously, I don't care if you're a christian, a muslim or a rastafarian. You want to deny a person's rights because of what you believe, it's a problem. Point out where I said I hate christians.
First of all christians I know do not call names and treat gays badly. Depends on your interpretation of christians. Westboro church members are not christians by the standard. Saying so does not make it so.
I don't hear any nasty things about interracial marriage. My family is interracial consisting of almost every race and a gay person. I live up north, maybe down south there is a problem but then some southern people still have a confederate flag flying (war ended guys)
Also shame on you for supporting prejudice against christians. Their core value is opposite sex marriage, family, and values. So I believe they have the right to that. I also think most christians support legal unions with the marriage rights but do not agree with them being called marriages because that forces them to leave what their core values are and they should not have to. A compromise is fair and both get what they want. To expect the religious people to walk away from their beliefs is ludicrous. I can love my gay grandchild even though I don't agree with homosexuality. Nothing will change my love and support for her. We can disagree but go on and she will always be a part of my life.
Finally, I do not like that you entire agenda is gay rights at all costs. You don't care about anything else or who you run over to get there. You are trying to act third party sticking up for homosexuals but your third paragraph indicates you have possibly have experienced that ridicule and I question if you did not experience it then where did you witness this or did you just accept that it happened because someone said it did?
I am not a victim and never claimed to be one. I also never said "you"hated christians unless you have placed yourself in the gay population I spoke of. You playing with martyrdom here not me. I am comfortable with who I am, my life, my family, my beliefs, and I don't have to agree with homosexuality to be a decent person and treat everyone with respect.
My entire agenda is not about gay rights, it just happens to be the topic here. Gay rights at all costs? What are the "costs"? I want gay people to be able to live their lives with no one giving a second thought to whether or not they are gay. I want them to be just as married as a straight person. Who am I running over? Bigots? Fine.
Like I said, I know all kinds of great christians. I also know all kinds of great gay people. I know plenty of jerks in both camps too. People are people. My evidence for christian bigotry and hate is in chat boards like this one and on Fox News. People have the benefit of anonymity, so they can be as mean-spirited as they want, and don't have to pretend to be better people than they are, like when they are face-to-face with someone else.
Again, my marriage wasn't in a church. Is my marriage worth less than yours? If a gay person calls their union a marriage, does it also devalue MY marriage, or is mine already devalued because I wasn't married in a church?
Re-read my post. I'm not advocating prejudice against christians, I just understand why a persecuted group would be. I'm not persecuted, never have been. I was lucky. You're misinterpreting my post.
But you aren't treating everyone with respect, are you? Gay people. How about gay people? You don't want their dirty little lives discussed in front of children, you don't want them to sully the word "married" or have the same rights as you. Pat yourself on the back all you want, but you are prejudiced, and you aren't treating everyone with respect. You may have a gay grand daughter, and she would likely be incredibly offended by your attitude. You may love the relation, but you are skipping past the complete person.
A woman in my dad's bible study group was the most offensive homophobe I had ever met. She thought all the gays should be rounded up and sent to jail for reprogramming. Guess what? Her daughter came out. After a few months of "soul-searching," and meeting her daughter's partner, and going to their wedding, and being given a grandchild, and seeing their commitment and the fine, decent, loving people they are, she changed her mind. Completely. Now THAT is treating everyone with respect.
I feel no ill will towards you personally. I'm sure you're a fine person. i do have trouble with how casually people turn gay PEOPLE into caricatures, and dehumanize them. That makes me mad, because it isn't right, it isn't fair... and it certainly isn't christian.
Let me clarify something for you, you are for gay rights at all costs. Children are taught certain things at certain ages because they can only handle certain subjects at certain ages. You nor the schools have the rights to decide that for parents. You assume that my disagreement is based on their "dirty" little lives being discussed in front of children. That was your description not mine. Mine is based on the rights of parents to teach their children and the emotional well being of what age children should be taught.
You only support those that agree with your views, you are unable to see that there are many levels and people do not have to agree to respectfully co-exist. I do have to comment on your description and comparison to Muslims. Way to funny, do you have any knowledge at all of Islamic laws? For someone who is supporting gays rights I would think that they would be the last group of people you would use for example as every gay person in this country would be executed. Why did you even use that example? Are Christians in the wrong for being concerned about a belief that you can kill your children if they dishonor you, stoning people for adultery, killing gays and christians, multation of disobiedient women? You see that as an equal comparison to a christian not agreeing with homosexuality?
I did not say marriage had to be in a church but the traditional marriage for christians is the union of a man and a woman not same sex couples.
Finally, I do not need to pat myself on the back. As I stated I am comfortable with who I am, I rent my rental property to people including gay couples. My granddaughter knows exactly what I believe and why. I have met her significant other and even though I completely do not agree with homosexuality I will not turn away from her or exclude her. You can interpret it for what you want but I do know the complete person and we have no problems with respecting the differences in our beliefs and I did not incinuate that she was anything less than a great person. You did.
MN American Mom - I did not say marriage had to be in a church but the traditional marriage for christians is the union of a man and a woman not same sex couples.
In America marriage is a secular legal contract. What you do in the privacy of your church is irrelevant to your marital status. And FYI, not all Christians are bigots like you - many denominations have no problems with gays and recognize same-sex marriage.
Let me clarify something for you. I did talk about age-appropriate content, didn't I? For example:
At age K-3, teach kids that their bodies are their own, avoid bad touch, be respectful of themselves and others, understand that all people are different in some ways, the same in some ways, know how to eat, wash, take care, etc
Grade 4-6, many kinds of families in the neighborhood, straight, gay, religious, non-religious, black, white, Muslim, Jew, etc. All should be judged on who they are.
Grade 7-12, human sexuality - how to protect themselves, understand risks of all kinds of behavior, know what rape is, know how to avoid exploitation. In this discussion, there would be some discussion of different kinds of sex, as kids WILL start experimenting at this age. Informed is armed.
Does that concern you? Am I the boogeyman? Schools need to form their curriculum because some parents will hide from the discussion and NEVER tell their kids anything, some will tell their kids to go hassle the fags, some will do their job properly and educate their kids well. The risk is that the kids who learn nothing, or learn bigotry, infect the others, sometimes figuratively, sometimes literally. Ignorance is dangerous when kids hit puberty.
When you throw around words like natural and normal, you do condemn even the people you love, as you are appropriating those words to define what you are, not what they are. You can love your GD, and I have no question that you do, but she knows you condemn something of what she is. There is no escaping that. You can rent to the gays, you can sell popcorn to the gays, but the truth is, you think the gays are flawed and need saving. This is ugly.
Traditional marriage for christians may be man and woman, but marriage isn't a christian word. I am not christian, but I will happily give the word marriage to gay people, and I have as much right to do so as you do.
I support all kinds of different views. I have never told anyone not to believe in god or Jesus. My dad's an evangelical. I love my dad. What I don't support is when people's individual views deny others of their rights. I couldn't be more clear about that.
Did I champion Islamic fundamentalists' treatment of gays? No. Don't put words in my mouth. I am saying if Christians spent their whole lives feeling persecuted, they would resent their oppressor, just like gay people do towards Christians who persecute them. not all christians do, but if you read the postings on this board, lots of the most hateful stuff comes with an "Approved by God" stamp.
Whew! Lots of comments! gopare fools (is there more than one of you in there?), you are one sick puppy! If you think teaching little kids that homosexuality is normal, you've fallen off your track! Mention the word, "homosexual" to a little kid, and WHAT DO YOU THINK THE NEXT QUESTION WILL BE? What's the difference? Then, you have to tell the kid the only basic difference is SEX! Most parents want to PROTECT their children from lifestyles that are against what they believe in, and shouldn't they have that right? I'm not calling them "gays" anymore, because I haven't found one that is happy, so they need to find a better word. Don't take words out of the dictionary, and change the meaning to suit such a small minority.
Christians should also have the right to bring up their children the way they see fit, and NOBODY should tell them they must abandon the Bible just because it doesn't jive with the homosexuals. Our Bible tells us that homosexuality is displeasing to God, and that we are to refrain from it, or encouraging it, or AGREEING to it. You can call us anything you wish, but you won't stop us from believing what we believe.
I am ashamed of the United States for having such a wishy - washy president, who only appears to be interested in getting re - elected. It is NONE of our business what another country does with their politics, religion, whatever. That would be like me going to my neighbor's house and telling them they HAVE to go to church, or they HAVE to be Democraps, or what color they have to paint their house, or...... wait a minute - that's CC&R's! We already have some of that. But I understand why so many countries dislike the US - we think our lifestyle is the greatest, and everybody must live like we do. Hogwash! We are not what we used to be, that's for sure. We thrive on deciet, lies, greed, sexual immorality, perversion. We no longer represent the family unit, dedication to our country, "one nation under God". Because of all the "minority groups", everything we stood for is disappearing. Minorities shouldn't be attacking Americans - they should be going after the real bigots - in our government - the ones who won't support the Constitution or the Bill of Rights. Under those two documents, EVERY person born or naturalized in the United States has the same rights as everybody else. Period. Fight for that, and stop embarrassing the rest of us. No government can function when it is not supporting "government by the people, for the people", and is instead supporting "government by the minorities, for the minorities". It was intended to cover the GENERAL portion of the American people, which we ALL are.
Bill - do you think the next question needs to be how gay people have sex? Do you really think a kid in grade three wants to know what gay men do in bed? Is it not possible to tell a little kid that sometimes a man and man can love each other, and sometimes a woman and a woman can love each other, and they can want to be a family together? See how I didn't mention sex there? Again, why do you conservatives need to make this all about sex? Are you also horrified by lesbians? They don't have sex the same way as gay men, does this also bother you?
The general portion of the population should not have the ability to deny the basic human rights of a smaller, yet still significant, portion of the population. No one is talking about taking anything away from straight people, I am simply advocating for straight people to stop interfering with gay people's lives, under the vague banner of religion or "that's yucky." Don't like the thought of gay men getting it on, stay out of their bedrooms.
As for teaching kids that there are gay people... ARE there gay people, yes or no? If you answered yes, we all have to "accept" (bad word, but you get the idea) that gay people are part of our communities. Statistically, some of the people you know are gay, they just don't tell you because they know you're an intolerant mess. I'll bet YOU haven't found any happy gays, since who would be happy around your poisonous attitude?
Did I ever say you need to abandon the bible? Read it all day, get your kids to read it all day. But when you pick and choose sections of the bible just so you can hate, your right interferes with someone else's right, that's being a bad christian. Besides, if you're going to be a biblical literalist, I sure hope you go around stoning adulterers and people who shave and eat shellfish (sounds almost as evil as the Qu'ran, doesn't it?), or you're a hypocrite and a weak-kneed christian. If you're going to limit rights and spew your bile, do it at all the identified targets.
One nation under god? Whose god? A Christian god? That excludes a lot of good quality people. That's why there is a separation of church and state. Always has been. Conservatives love to quack about the founding fathers and their bible study classes, but that's a fabrication to support religious intolerance.
You know, you talk about family... I have seen the most loving, caring parents in gay couples. You know why? For a gay couple to have a kid, they have to walk through fire, deal with public vitriol, and find alternate ways to conceive. Straight folk only need a back seat and six pack of Pabst Blue Ribbon. If a gay couple has a kid, you KNOW they want to be parents enough to endure people like some on this board, and I would rather have my kids raised by someone like that than some douche who has kids he doesn't even want just because he knocked up his old lady.
News flash - all politicians want to get re-elected. They have a social and economic platform that they run on, and unless they get tripped up by the other party and lobbyists, they want to see it come to fruition. That's what Obama is doing. That's what any president would be doing. It's bad because it's Obama, right?
Maybe your personal experience was beer guzzling back seat screwing but that is your experience and your opinion. Your responses indicate your agenda based on a personal not factual basis and certainly does not support that gays are automatically better parents. Guess I should leave out the guy who left his wife in my community with 3 kids they had together and hooked up with another man who left his wife and 1 son. It came out that the man with 1 son was using the son who was being sodomized by his own father and his father friends. Yup thats great parenting. I don't know about you but parents like that gay or straight need a bullet between the eyes period. Clean, quick, and permanent.
The difference is I am not ignorant enough to assume that all gay men would do this, not all straight men are bad parents either.
GoPare, unfortunately you can come up with all the logic in the world and until people are ready to cease being captive to their irrational fears it won't do an iota of good. I comend you for trying though. Let them be bigots, they're the minority and their viewpoint will soon be in the history books right next to Jim Crowe, those who opposed suffarage and micegenation laws. Continue to set an example for those who will listen and learn and you will accomplish more then all the hate in the world put together. You give me hope.
I agree with Bill about stealing words out of the dictionary and changing their meaning. Why not call them what they are, UNSTRAIGHT, or HOMOSEXUALS? Is what they are so abhorrent to them they have to call it something else to feel better about themselves. probably.
dont force what views on others? you mean like innocent people should be allowed to live freely without being abused or killed because of their sexuality?
thats just deplorable that someone would try to force such a view on others...
Toasty cite what you will but your nonsense of it not being a choice is ignorant!
There is not a chance in the world that of a medical or genetic condition that a man needs or has to have another mans penis in some part of his body the same applies to women and their genitalia as well.
Just because some foolish study points to the fact that hormones are screwed up in some people that leads them to a predisposition of craving the same sex does not mean they don't have a choice. The only possible medical reason or cause would be mental, and we both no that is wrong as there is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing to be gay!
There is no study that has been done that shows that homosexuality is a voluntary reaction. Heterosexuality is not a voluntary reaction (did you choose? I didn't.). It is not only "hormones" that are different. In homosexual women and heterosexual men, there are certain patterns of brain activity that are similar - as are patterns in heterosexual women and homosexual men. Homosexuals who realize their orientation later in life have EVERY incentive not to admit it (their marriages, their children, their jobs, their financial status, their religious affiliation, etc) and yet do so anyway because it is the only way they can live an honest, happy life - and they do so at enormous cost. No one would "choose" that.
If you truly argue that the "choice" is acceptable, well, you're on the path to understanding, but as long as you use the word "choice", you really lose your credibility. Your position is simply not supported by the evidence.
So since your sexual preference is not a choice we should now release all those poor pedophiles and rapists and well as for bestiality have at it.
I thought they had commited crimes but it appears our system is flawed all those poor people had no choice in the matter. Wrong sexual orientation is and always has been a choice.
Homosexuality has existed since the dawn of mankind not only in humans but other animals as well, also masturbation has been an issue and occurs in many species.
My thought as origanally posted was Obama has no right to demand that other nations be tolerant of our supportive of gay people, that is for them to decide after he states his opinions on the matter.
You certainly did not hear him demanding that the perverted Arabs stop marrying little girls, he did not even politely ask them to stop.
Tim, comparing homosexuality to pedophilia, rape, and bestiality is outright wrong. You need to realize that there is an important distinction called "informed consent" that you can't get from kids, rape victims, or animals.
many straight people are hit an by homosexuals everyday some take great offense and get violent others say no and some well choose to give it a try.
Keyword choose!
Kids in school do have to choose, the term my kids tell me that bi-curiuos is the new thing at school so according to you if you try it and like it you were born gay and if ya try it and dont you were born straight? Oh wait ya cant do that that would be choosing.
Tim, Your views are so obscene that you appear to be a troll, someone who is purposely inflammatory, but your grade school grammar and spelling just makes you out to be an ignorant hick who has so little going on in his life that he has to feel better about himself by putting down those who are different.
A straight person who has no homosexual inclinations will not react violently to a gay person hitting on them, instead they will politely tell them that they are not interested. A repressed gay man may react violently when he is forced to address those taboo urges. Some may be out and will respond with interest. None of them are acting outside of their biology and none are making a conscious choice to be gay or not.
The attraction is not a choice but as always a person chooses whom they have sex with.
As for bisexuality, it is true that homosexuality is more favorable in the mainstream media and I can see it being cool to SAY you are bi, even though you are primarily interested in one or the other.
Sexual attraction isn't a dichotomy but is rather a sliding scale. Some people who are primarily homosexual in their attraction have a small amount of attraction to the opposite sex and similarly some who are primarily heterosexual in their attraction have a small amount of attraction to the same sex.
Mostly relationships are about who you can fall in love with and live happily with. I wouldn't be happy in a relationship with a woman, and I would probably resent her because I felt no physical attraction to her.
But then again these distinctions are very subtle, and I doubt your capable of grasping them.
Just because you need an excuse to be a queer does not mean it was not your choice and there is absolutely no proof you were born gay, scientific or otherwise. Calling someone you dont even know a hic and a troll proves your an idiot and a bigot.
Lol, no excuse needed, but all the credible medical associations in the United States have come out with statements saying that homosexuality isn't a choice and this includes the APA, and the AMA. But I'm sure these professionals with over 10 years of schooling don't know what they are talking about compared to you who has a degree in what exactly?
As for calling you a hick...I call them as I see them.
As usual, I suppose that my old age strongly influnces my attitude, but I am so very tired of listening to every group which does not qualify as WASP crying out for their "rights". Just join in the mainstream at work, in the neighborhood and in government, and everyone will be treated equally! This political correctness today is ridiculous!
not true, babs. gay people can't marry. Just hanging out at the water cooler doesn't change that. It is their right. In supporting policies that ban gay marriage, you are denying them that right. Period.
you must be thinking that if we just do the same thing we did yesterday, that today things would be different. hmmmm.. sounds like an addict, or an insane person, same logic, just ask a counselor. If you are sooo tired of political correctness just think how sick and Fng tired we are of discrimination.
Just join in the mainstream at work, in the neighborhood and in government, and everyone will be treated equally!
Thing is, Babs, the groups you're talking about already do this. They do it every single day, but they're still not being treated equally. And its because of attitudes like yours.
You know, if you're so tired of hearing people complain about not being treated equally I've got a solution for you: start treating people equally and they'll stop complaining about not being treated equally. It has nothing to do with being "politically correct", it has everything to do with doing the right thing.
"Just join the mainstream at work, in the neighborhood and in government, and everyone will be treated equally!"
Really? So then, why is that I, as a lesbian is the US armed forces, until December couldn't even think about living my life openly IN GOVERNMENT without risking my career? I do believe I have been gainfully employed since I was 16, live in a neighborhood (except for when I'm stationed overseas), and yet have had to hide my life from the people I work with for over a decade. How is that being treated equal?
And now that the DADT repeal is on its way to being implemented, well, I still don't have the equal right to marry the woman that I love. I will have to fight to prove that the children I hope to have one day rightfully are mine if my partner has them and we seperate (which I hope never happens). I still can't claim her on my medical insurance because, what do you know, even with the DADT repeal we still can't marry because the federal government won't repeal the defense of marraige act.
Tell me then, how this Land of the Free, Home of the Brave, country of Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness is equal when I, and so many other, tax-paying, hard working people can't just live our lives without people who have no role in our lives <i>dictating</i> how we are supposed to live our lives to <i>their</i> standards.
Thank Darwin that Obama's a one-term lame duck! Maybe in 2012 we'll get someone with the guts and intelligence to realize you simply cannot please everyone no matter how hard or deep you bend over without destroyed what you supposedly stand for - the United Stated of America.
Exactly, I wish he had said piss off to the repubs and plowed ahead with a public option, gay marriage, etc. That's what you get for trying to reach across the aisle, when those on the other side are nothing more than hateful, self-interested pawns of the Kock brothers.
The more time Obama spends on this stuff just reduces the time he has to do more damage to this nation. Now if we could only get him to extend his South American spring break family vacation!
Yes.....his administration and czars are definately busy. I bet we don't know half of what they have planned. It's gonna be an interesting couple years.
yeah, you can't please everyone without destroying america, especially those ever-destructive queers. how dare he try to appease them and their queer world-domination agenda.
you realize he really wasn't behind gay marriage until his poll numbers started tanking? His new, improved stance on gay rights is the least of my worries.
Most of you are just prejudice you believe that the world revolves around you and what crap you think of is gospel. Gays are people they are not animals that you control. Who are you to say that only men and woman can be married? I am not gay I have a bi-sexual son so in your foolish eyes I should disown him what a crock. Maybe you should be judging yourselves instead of trying to judge someone elses life. Mind your own business and allow them to be AMERICANS!
the problem is dehlyn the gays make it our problem , and I also read some gay up there somewhere using animals in his arguement , something about same sex animals doing eachother , so urge them to stop using the animals as cover
How is it your problem John? Out of all the post that I have read not one person is asking you to join, or ask you out, or said anything to you to make it your problem. The problem here at the moment is you and the ones that talk like you. You have a problem with this site leave it is that simple. No, telling me to leave won't work cause I do not have a problem.
John, the argument about animals was demonstrating that homosexuality is not some strange human concept - virtually all mammals have been observed exhibiting homosexual behaviors. Scientific fact.
I guess there are SO many ignorant ppl in the world that they do NOT understand that being gay is NOT a choice...and their ignorance shows when they talk religious nonsense to back up their misguided views! If God is perfect and makes NO mistakes, then who is man to say that he did. Stop the ignorance, torture and killing of innocent ppl!
Raymond I do not think it matters what the good lord says at the moment he is not here. We are here no god is going to fight for this we have to do the best we can. Allow the fools against to dig their own graves, this America land of the free home of the brave.
My son is not sick, nor is he a mental case. It is prissy people such as you that make up crap and say it is Gospel. Get your own life and allow others to live theirs.
Of course it is a disease. What is it about creating life do you not understand? However, the good side of this is if everyone would be born homo, from today forward, life will cease to exist, and this is the only exciting thing to come from being born a sexual mishap.
Sheeps is talking out his rear, he has no clue about this subject. And the ones that agree with him are an insult to this human race. You know the kind no backbone,stab their own mother in the back,whiny,snivaling,complaining, know it alls.
Approximately 10% of every species on Earth are gay. It is time that we stop discriminating against 10% of humans just because they are born with a sexual orientation. Thanks President Obama for stepping-up and doing the right thing!
Very soon, incest will be legal. You will be able to marry your own daughter or son. The earth will become void of any self restraint or morality. I'm old and thank god everyday that my life is almost over. Homosexuals do not want to find a cure for their disease. And for loren, people are born with cancer and other diseases also, and we don't try to conceal this fact by calling it normal.
First off, who cares what two consenting adults do? Second off, if homosexuality is a disease, then so is left-handedness. Should we deny them civil rights as well? Last I checked, they don't want a "cure" for their "disease" either.
Nobody cares what they 'do'. I just don't think we should justify it by trying to call it normal and allow them to equate it to my marriage when it's not the same. Be happy with 'civil union/domestic partnership' it gives them all their equal rights. In high school, girls have to play on the 'girls team' because they are not boys. They don't go demanding' equal rights' because they have the SAME THING.. it's just called something else. "A rose by any other name would still smell as sweet."
Laura-476504 - I just don't think we should justify it by trying to call it normal and allow them to equate it to my marriage when it's not the same.
It is the same - exactly the same.
Be happy with 'civil union/domestic partnership' it gives them all their equal rights.
Too bad civil unions and domestic partnerships aren't recognized between states, by the feds or by other countries. They are most definitely not legally equivalent to marriage.
Laura, your girls team/boys team analogy is completely off point. I'm guessing you aren't an attorney? We separate by gender in sports because there are physiological differences between the sexes that directly effect our capabilities of playing those sports. Please, point out the phsyiological differences between gays and straights that make gays inherently less capable of maintaining a relationship? If you can do that, then your argument will be on point.
Hey Dehlyn, I'm just cracking some jokes. I'm not particularly worried about who marries who, but it's nice to see who the knee-jerkers are. Come to Butt-head!
I do not mind a good joke Brent, but insults are not jokes. They are done by people who have nothing better to do than attack what they do not understand.
Yes I do Brent. And I am sensitive towords other peoples feelings. I will not go out of my way to make anyone feel bad unless it is to the people that are short sided, narrow minded, pitiful, foul mouthed,and spineless weasels that unfortunatly are in this country. Guess you are just one more.
I'm not gonna go into my background or lifestyle with you; it's really none of your business! Foul mouthed I may be, but short SIGHTED, narrow minded and spineless I definately am not. Try again!
Therapy to 'repair' homosexuality is more damaging than the homophobia that drives patients to seek it and is dissavowed and banned by every major 'professional' medical organization in the country.
Good, to see the US taking this step.... something to help offset the right wing preachers that went to Africa to help write constitutions calling for the death of gay people.
As a gay, well educated, soon to be sworn in (to citizenship) legal permanent resident of this country I am proud to see what the president is doing. Until this year I was questioning if I should consider accepting american citizenship, after all why bother becoming a citizen if all I would be is a second class resident... Increasing levels of acceptance and positive political headway are giving me more hope.
For all those who question this action, and feel things are shoved down your throats; were you aware that less then a week ago a gay american philadelphian was stoned to death in Philadelphia? Were you aware that the reasoning used to justify this action was based on the old testament? I personally try not to judge people based on their faith, however, events like these frustrate me beyond believe. So lets just say that while some of you may feel that this is pushover and overly empathetic I think you got the easy side.... at least you don't get stoned to death for having a girlfriend, or asking someone out for a date.
As for the matter of biology choice and so forth... if you question the nature of my/our sexuality let me assure you it is not a matter of coice, nor is it an attempt to gain popularity or attention. None of these would be achieved by choosing to be gay. It is a matter of nature... Those of us who are out have the strength to stand up for what we are, others are afraid of standing out and deserve your help. You may perceive us as different. But we are just as loving and caring, we date and raise children. We serve on juries, support our armed services, run for offices, and support your rights. Is it really too much to ask for that we too are treated equal under the law. Is it really strange that I am highly upset about the fact that I can be fired in over 25 states for being gay?
When a gay man can get stoned to death in Philadelphia, can you imagine what the live of gay men and women is like in Turkey, Uganda, or the middle east? I think it is very appropriate to ensure that gay women and men in countries receiving U.S. aid are not mistreated based on their sexual orientation. When we support the schooling of women in the middle east why not also encourage them to embrace equality among different sexual orientations? Why not also broaden acceptance for the GLBT community? By pushing for acceptance and education we prevent problems before they arise.
What in the hell does a turkish prison have to do with this other than Turkey is one of those countries that needs to raise the bar when it comes to equal rights and so was likely a target of the resolution at the UN?
USE THE GRAY MATTER PLEASE*Ive been reading these comments that these people have been leaving concerning this issue and its very sad what this world is coming to...Noone really understands unless he/she is a homosexual...It is times like this that makes me ashamed to be an american.I am a 25 year old male who is proud to be gay and proud of the ones who arnt scared to stand up and fight for what they believe in...I live in a small country town in southeast texas,came out when i was 14 and been fighting for my right to love and live the way i feel is right between myself and GOD.Thats all that matters..My lifestyle is not a choice...Who would choose a life that is complicated to live?!I would just like to thank you all for actually understanding this subject and posting it for everyone ...they are just rediculous comments that dont make a bit of scence...anyway thank you....
Babs, gay people are killed in other countries. This isn't an issue of political correctness. And guess what? There are people in this world who aren't born white, Christian and in the US. Astounding, I know. Look beyond your nose. Congratulations on being ignorant, myopic, and out of touch.
Some people are so consumed with their own lust, they will not and cannot accept the truth about homosexuality as being abnormal, the same as child molesters, pedophiles, rapists, and people who have sex with animals, after all, these people believe they are normal as well, and will convince people that they are just as normal as anyone else. In doing so these acts will became acceptable and legal as well.
And you have relative experience in all of these don't you sheep. To clarify you have done all that you have listed, or are you just lying to cover up your own whacked desires
Well to all you that are against Gay marrige. It would be different if you knew what you were talking about. As it is though you have not the faintest idea why you are arguing you don't have any facts you just blurt out the first thing that enters your minds and you hope it makes you look good, but it only serves as too show how ignorant about this subject you really are. Have a nice day.
wow. you brent and corsair are a real bunch of bigots. And real @ssholes too. You have no concept of a polite dialogue. You're all three trolls on the level that rivals the rent trolls. NBC should gag you, you're not engaging in dialogue or free speech when you make these comparisons. They aren't logical, they are profane, and you treat this conversation about whether someone has the right to not be beaten to death for absolutely nothing more than being themselves as if it were a big joke. Screw you i hope you fall down some stairs and break your necks.
Uber, How much education did it take to learn the word "troll?" I bet it took quite a few years of classtime to learn death threats. In my four years of college, never was "Death Threats 101" offered as a course selection. Guess I should have reviewed the WHOLE catalog.
If you think interfering with a discussion with pointless comments is either funny or productive, that's just sad. Get a life and let people of actual wit debate the issues of the day. You're neither funny nor clever.
Imagine if liberals were to tell the Tea Party to join the 'mainstream' you'd have a field day declaring a violation of every freedom known to mankind. Yet, when President Obama sticks up for a minority in America, you are repulsed. Hippocrite.
you have a point there Toasty. I don't believe in one group of people singling out any other particular group for extermination. More power to him there, but nothing anyone tries to do will ever be able to eliminate hate.
The only way that could ever be accomplished would be through reprogramming, like A Clockwork Orange, but on a global scale. Good luck with that utopian dream!
This whole discussion reminds me of many years ago, the nudists were "coming out", trying to be allowed to be nude in public. They got nowhere, so formed their own hidden communities, out of sight of the general public, and have never been heard of again. Now, they have their own lives, and our respect. Why don't you homosexuals do the same?
I think it is very good that everyone has equal rights in this world, just cause one is either gay, bi or lesbian doesn't mean we don't love the same as straights love the opposite sex. We don't call y'all rude names like you all call us. It's called respect and equality
Here we go again...the phrase "gay rights" comes up and the holier-than-thous come out of the woodwork screeching that they're somehow being persecuted. (face-palm)
This one's my favorite: Gay Rights = Bestiality. Yes, because nothing says "equal rights" quite like f*cking the dog.
Here's another one: "Gays don't procreate, so it ain't right." Oh God, so that means these people ARE procreating? Now THAT ain't right!
You know, Obama wasn't even talking about gay rights. He is just calling for the end of people being jailed and executed for being born gay. That's a human rights issue.
At least the administration can't be accused of dithering on something. Good to see some kind of priority out of Obama. Could it be for votes?
Heaven forbid anyone could actually give a crap about gay folks getting beat up and killed.
Many of those dying people are being killed because they are gay. Their priorities are justified and many thanks to the Obama Administration for doing what's good and right.
Seriously, the bigot homophobes should sit down and quietly contemplate how they got to be such hateful people.
Reason 2200 your post was intersting anf I to am tired of homosexuality being crammed down everyones throats. There are far more kids who are bullied for reasons other than being homosexual but the homosexual kids who do are pushed forward in the media. All bullying should stop no matter what the reason but one child is not more important than another or at least thats the way it should be but isnt.
I completely disagree with this being brought into the schools without parents knowledge. It is disgusting that this agenda is more important than the kids emotional well being. We do not even bring sexuality into the classroom until the kids learn about it in middle school and parents should have the right to decide what they do or don't want taught to their child. it all just plain sickening!
it seems like all the problems are caused by the haters (hint hint). wake up and step into the 21st century. and if you can't manage to do that, keep your bigoted, holier than thou, mentally and spiritually challenged thoughts to yourself.
Hmmm, mentally and spiritually challenged. By that statement are you not just as bigoted as they are. So they in your mind do not have freedon of speech? You do!
What priority ???
Mr. Obama is like a Chameleon, he changes his priorities as quick as the second hand on your watch makes another tick.
Oh, what will the U.N. do with the following countries:
Wow, this must be the string related to the ignorants who really should have visited other areas for comments, since most of their comments seem to want to deflect the purpose of the article: HUMAN RIGHTS FOR GAYS.
Yes, there (proper spelling) are people dying of starvation, people dying of religious persecution, dying because they are a woman. Why is it that gay people don't deserve attention to the fact that they, too, are dying from sexual orientation?
Do yourselves a favor, if you don't want to pay attention to this issue, go ahead and donate to your favorite cause and let the rest of us celebrate the fact that we have a president that can MULTI-TASK. Thank the Lord!!!!
Sex is for two things in my opinion. Reproduction, and enjoyment. Since homosexual intercourse is not for reproduction, I think it's fair to say their interactions are for leisure.
Watching baseball is something you do for leisure. Playing video games is for leisure. I'm all for treating people equally, but I get tired of this "in your face" junk. Your sexual preference is a HOBBY, not a LIFESTYLE. I mean, if your orientation is natural in your mind, fine, so be it. But trying to force recognition as a "community" or a "people" as if you're a persecuted race seems a bit over the top to me. If you are the way you are just for being born, fine, come to terms with it and accept it. But needing the world to acknowledge you, demanding special rights, etc smacks of you needing others to make you feel legitimate. I am heterosexual, I have been married for years and have a child. I don't lead rallies or speak in the third person about the "heterosexual community," etc. I am how I am and leave it at that. Gays try too hard to push agendas, that's what bugs me. Just like this UN thing. It means nothing, accomplishes nothing, and is non binding. It's just an announcement of "hey, we're cool with gays, please vote for us in 2012."
Your logic is terrible. Gays are not trying to gain any level of rights over Heterosexuals; rather they only want to be equal to everyone else: by having the right to marry who they want. Until you provide a rational reason for why Gays (and Lesbians) should not be allowed to marry, other than "they're gaining more rights than us", you can reply.
As for the rest of you, all you are doing is using circular logic, by saying "homosexuality is not normal, therefore it's not normal".
Specifically to Reason2200: When you learn to argue rather than just quote something from some random blog, then you can reply.
Specifically to MNAmericanMom, children in schools need to know that it is not OK to make fun of someone just because they prefer another sex. Or are you justifying the many who have committed SUICIDE because of being taunted for their sexuality?
I'm wondering, do you four (including Milo) have some pact where you up-vote each other as to "look more popular"?
So what about sterile couples, Russell? Should they be allowed to be hanged in the streets for acting on their natural urge to have sex, even if they cannot make a child?
Russellm...I appreciate that you are all for treating people equally and that if my orientation is natural in my mind "so be it". But imagine, if you will, that you're an American citizen....you work, you pay your taxes, you are an upstanding member of your community and you fall in love. You want to take the next step in your relationship and get married but you can't...it's not allowed. You see all your family, friends and neighbors able to do so but that's a right not available to you. How would that make you feel? Less than? Would you feel that it's unfair that you pay your taxes yet are denied rights that are given to others? THAT'S why we push our agenda and speak at rallies and try to feel legitimate. YOU don't have to because you don't NEED to.
"this agenda is more important than the kids emotional well being"
Huh? So what are you doing to improve gay people's emotional well being? Apparently you're so supportive yet marriage is out of the question?
Let's ban marriage of elderly couples and infertile couples and of course let's ban divorce.
The USA should put extra pressure on our dear muslim allies that call for death by stoning.
The world added nearly a billion people in just the past decade, yet bigots argue that marriage equality will doom the species. That's freakin' funny. There's not a legitimate, moral or truthful argument to continue discrimination.
sick of hearing about gays, put it back in the closet where it belongs. the world has much more pressing problems than this BS. shut the f up.
Reason,
Your argument is analogous to saying that racially segregated schools and businesses are fine, since all people can go into businesses and attend schools, even if it's not ALL businesses and schools. It's just plain old flawed logic.
Several of you:
This "the gay agenda is being forced down our throats" argument is one of the weakest arguments that's ever existed. Either the gay rights movement is right or it's not - that is, either gay rights are good or bad. If you think they're bad, say so - and accept that you're against gay rights. If you think they're good, then there's no predetermined pace for these things to move at.
If you're one of those people who says "well I'm fine with gays but I'm sick of seeing them and hearing about them", why should they have to hide what they are because it makes you uncomfortable? If blacks make you uncomfortable, do they have to stay indoors for your enjoyment? You argue that they have to thrust themselves in your faces (figuratively speaking) - this is a society absolutely OBSESSED with heterosexual sexuality and marriage. Weddings are a multibillion dollar industry. People wear wedding rings. The news is dominated by reports of celebrity dating and relationships. You can't go ANYWHERE in public without seeing a heterosexual couple "flaunting" their lifestyle. Double standards are for the weak-minded. Get over it.
Yeah, with all the problems the world is facing, special rights for special interest groups like gays is the one on which we need to focus.
Come on 2012
As always, most of the people commenting didn't even read the article (in other words you're just trolling).
This issue has nothing to do with gay marriage or additional special rights. It was to do with basic human rights not being afforded across the board to ALL humans.
Idaho Spud
You say 'gays getting beat up and killed'. What about non gays? I don't see you preaching about them.
Maybe I am just old fashioned, but since when does everything revolve around your sexual choice in life?
It seems to me that if you are gay, and illegal alien and a minority you pretty much have your life and your rights bought and paid for by those of us who actually have morals and values.
Welcome to Rome (just before it fell)
Patrick...
1. The article is about gay rights. Just because we care about the safety and well being of gay people, that does not exclude us from caring about others who go through the same things. However, THIS article is about gays, ergo, we're addressing gays.
2. Please explain how you're paying for their life and rights. Are you suggesting that every person in those categories is on welfare? If someone is illegal, you aren't paying anything for them, because they can't receive it. If you're so-called "paying" for their rights, then where are they? Why would we even be having this conversation if you've already done this.
3. Are you implying that the only people who have morals are heterosexual, legal, white, men? Women, blacks, gays, latinos, asians, indians, native americans, none of them have morals? Those are all minorities and you claim that their, "life and rights are bought and paid for by those of us who actually have morals." That directly implies that you think all those groups don't have them.
4. Is it moral to make generallizations? Is it moral to discriminate? Is it moral to deny others the rights you enjoy based on who they are and not what they've done? Please name a time a gay person has in some way injured you and caused damage, just by being gay. In what substantial, proven way would you be harmed if gay's had equal rights.
5. Name one right you will lose by gays gaining theirs?
For every religious anti-homosexual quote you can pull from the Bible, I can pull one pertaining to love, compassion, and acceptance.
My apologies to the good white men (and in some cases women) out there, I'm sure you far outnumber the idiots, but it seems to me that demographic does an awful lot of whining. Minorities aren't taking away your rights, shoving stuff down your throat, or changing a single iota of your lives. All they're asking for is to enjoy the same benefits and rights you have, based on the same reason you have for being entitled to them, that being HUMANITY.
P.S. They hold rallies, parades... because they are trying to bring to attention the fact that they are still being denied rights and looked at as second class citizens, or under a veil of judgmental, faux, morality. That's not shoving it down your throat. You don't do those things, because you ALREADY HAVE what they're asking for.
Sarah, I was not bit ching or whining. My comment stands.
If I were gay, what would really change in my life? Answer is nothing other than who I sleep with at night.
I would go to work, earn a living, pay taxes, go out for dinner and so on.
The fact they feel the need to have a parade is crazy. People all know that not everyone is straight, who gives a rats butt? Sleep with you dog Fido for all I care, just don't bring those views into my life, expect me to accept you for your choices if they are not within my views of what is moral and Christian.
You, and others, expect that in some way or form I HAVE to accept and agree with your lifestyles. I don't. I don't hate you (or a gay person) for what they do, but for you to (excuse the pun) shove it down my throat, then it's you who are wrong.
Do what you want with your life. You don't have to answer to me and I am NOT your judge and jury when you die.
However, I do expect that my children shouldn't have to be exposed to YOUR choice in life as normal or accepted when it shouldn't be.
We can preach about acceptance all day long and I would agree with you on most points. The issue is that if at the end of the day I don't agree with a gay persons life choice, somehow I am the bad guy. I am not. I don't hate gays, I don't discriminate against gay people or go out of my way to make their lives harder than it already is.
Its just a lifestyle I don't accept, will never accept as anything other than an abomination but again, I am not the person you need to impress so it really shouldn't bother you and or anyone else on what my views are.
Preaching to my kids about this lifestyle is another story. This goes against what I teach as a parent and regardless of what you or anyone else thinks, it's my morals and values I care to pass along to them, not yours or that of a gay lifestyle.
The fact that you and the gay community is all but forcing me to read about them, see their lifestyles on sesame street and other shows is forcing YOUR views on my kids.
How about we stop whining about YOUR rights and take a look at what mine are as a parent and a heterosexual human being who is tired of all the forced acceptance the gay community forces on my life daily.
Completely missing the point of the UN proposal. Yes, your statement would be true in most parts of the U.S., but it is not so abroad.
And someone is forcing you to post about it? If you don't want this in your face, why are you even reading this thread? If anything complain to MSNBC for posting it.
Teaching your morals to your kids has nothing to do with exposure. If they are not exposed to it now, they will be exposed to it later. Unless you plan to keep them in your basement with all access to the outside world restricted, that is. Hiding things will not make them go away.
Hmm, nobody is forcing me to post about and likewise nobody is forcing you to post the opposing view. I can't believe you went there, but ok. I am more than willing to point out the obvious to those who can't see it in front of them.
Morals to my kids have everything to do with exposure. When I teach them one thing and media (even the news articles) is constantly showing this lifestyle as the 'norm', there is a huge issue with exposure. Again, obvious, but you failed to see it.
And I am not hiding anything, I just don't feel they need to be desensitized by shows, songs, news, parades and the list goes on and on. The shows on tv today would have never been accepted 20 years ago. Does that mean we are more accepting of these or that we have just been desensitized by violence, sexuality and the other sensitive issue's we face? From what I have read it's most likely both.
Would you feel the same if there were more of an acceptance for beastiality? Parades of people who love their animals (literally), tv shows showing it's ok, people like you posting that I should accept it without question and your kids seeing this constantly as the norm? Yea, I thought so.... But, hey, sexual preference is sexual preference, right?
Therefore reinforcing my point.
Now there is a bad comparison. Bestiality is the sexual abuse of animals for human pleasure. In this matter the animal has no say, that is equal to rape. A homosexual relationship on the other is consensual, if it is not consensual then it is rape as well. (Next thing you will probably bring up is pedophilia I am sure, to which the same argument applies, it is rape, and has nothing to do with homosexuality.)
And about your choice of words ('sexual preference' and 'lifestyle') I see where you are coming from. You are assuming that being homosexual is a choice. And in light of that, am I to assume you are choosing (prefer) to be straight, but you are sexually attracted to both men and women?
I believe the use of drugs to be wrong, yet they still show it in the news and in TV shows, some even glorify it. Yet, not seeing it will not stop drug use from happening, or from affecting the life of my kids at some point in their life. Just as seeing it will not hinder my ability to teach my kids that it is morally wrong.
Patrick, I absolutely LOVE how you just skip over anything you can't refute and go right on to completely miss the @!$%#ing point. Like every other god damn conservative @!$%# I've ever seen arguing on this subject. Or, hell, any subject. You don't have anything to back your side up, and for your information, you can't just label an issue as objective. You can't just say "Oh well I don't believe what you believe so you have to respect my opinion too." I'm going to say this as slowly as I can so you MIGHT understand some of it
THIS. IS. A. HUMAN. RIGHTS. ISSUE.
If you don't understand what that implies, then @!$%# you AND your family. Schools are not required to say anything regarding homosexuality, but you know what? If it negates the dumbass views that you force on your kids, I say @!$%#ing go for it, because as far as I'm concerned you don't have anything worthwhile to offer as a parent. You go ahead and teach your kids that "faggots are disgusting" and see what happens. When he gets in trouble for beating up a gay kid, you go ahead and @!$%#ing congratulate him. You lack the capability to think the @!$%# ahead and see what your actions and your message do to those around you, and THIS is EXACTLY why some people don't believe in free speech. Thank you so @!$%#ing much for furthering that cause, you god damn worthless @!$%#stain of a human being. Next time, READ THE DAMN ARTICLE BEFORE YOU POST.
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alexreffrand, you are one hostile, angry person. The "dumbass views" you speak of, are views we teach our children for their future. Who put you in charge to even speak of them as "dumbass views"? How did you become the supreme ruler of all humans, to make such a strong decision that our views are no good, and yours are worthy? I think Patrick has made some very valid points. I think you are doing nothing but venting your anger because everyone is not bending to your way of thinking. There is probably no honest way to tell EXACTLY how many folks really agree with the homosexual lifestyle, but if we were all to be honest about it, it would be a small number. The media has duped the public to think there are large numbers of "normal" homosexuals, and many gullible people believe you want only your fair shake (they're called "liberal - minded adults"). We had a "gay pride parade" parade in our town last year, and there were homos walking the streets in their underpants, grabbing their crotch at every turn. There were many small children present. They (according to their leader) were "celebrating and honoring the gay lifestyle". That has nothing to do with asking for equal rights as American citizens. Nearly everything I see that is related to homosexuals, has a negative connotation to it. You are attacking the wrong people - the average citizen has nothing to do with your rights - go to your congressmen and demand your rights as an American citizen, not as a homosexual. You might actually have better luck.
Patrick, therein lays the crux of the problem... "your choice as moral and accepted WHEN IT SHOULDN'T BE". Your self appointment of judge, jury, and God. Again, you've failed to make a substantive argument for how this is effecting you. Lemme guess, you see it as a break down in society that will lead to all sorts of depravity and evil? Oops, that's not a legal claim, you can't deny rights based on what MIGHT happen. That's a big no no, and by the way completely paranoid.
Answer this...
How is it fair that, because you don't want your children to see/hear about it, gay people shouldn't be represented on tv or Sesame Street?
If that's how you feel, can't you just change the station? Having to push a button on the remote is more damaging to you then the delegation of second class citizenship is to a large amount of the population?
I've yet to hear anyone tell you how to raise your children. Personally, I hope they see through your thinly veiled bigotry, but by all means raise them to be as hateful and judgmental as you want.
When that hate and judgment starts effecting people's rights as citizens is when I have a problem with it. This might be shocking to you, but not everyone in this country shares your "morals", and therefore they do NOT get to dictate who may or may not do what. The law looks at us, or should look at us, stripped of all excess baggage (ie gender, sexual preference, color, religion). There is no room in the law for religous morals/judgments. And you can spew that crap about the 10 commandments being the basis for all law if you want. There's a reason why adultry and idol worship aren't addressed in secular law, because they are personal moral choices.
What else makes your life style more "correct" then a happily married gay couple? Can you answer without relying on your personal concept of morality? Can you give a substantive legal argument based on reasoning, precedent, or past experience? Until you can, you don't have much of a case.
Last question...
If tomorrow the world turned upside down and gay people ruled the earth, how would you feel when your marriage was annulled and not recognized? Your children made illigetimate? You couldn't be named next of kin on any of your wife's documents and vice versa? And all this happened, not because you harmed anyone, but because you made the choice to love someone?
Hiya bill. How are ya? Bad, I'm guessing. Hell, if I were you, I'd be downright depressed. See, your dumbass views (and I call them that because, well, you're a dumbass, and they are in fact your views) are not supported by, well, any research that has been done in the past fifteen years. In fact, all you have is your own word, which, honestly, means exactly @!$%# in court. And I'm certain you know that. You're perfectly aware of what you're saying, and deep down you know there's no logic behind your dislike for gays. But that doesn't matter to you, because admitting that is admitting you're wrong, and dammit, you just can't do that, can you? Honestly, I'm more amused than offended, and do you know why? I'll bet you do, but I'm making this comment for my pleasure, so I'll spell it out for you anyway.
You have no say in any of this.
Yep, you have no right to limit my rights, and you have no power to do so. Isn't that great? Don't you just @!$%#ing love it? Really, all you are is some douchebag homophobe who has nothing better to do with his time than to troll. Really, the fact that you have no friends to occupy your time with is something you should be more focused on, but I'm grateful you aren't, because it shows everyone else the kind of person you are. Go ahead, respond to this. Keep proving my point. Show everyone here how @!$%#ing stupid you and everyone who shares your ideals really is.
If I could vote this comment up 2x I would.
Patrick said "Sleep with you dog Fido for all I care, just don't bring those views into my life, expect me to accept you for your choices if they are not within my views of what is moral and Christian."
Patrick, if this is really the case that you just don't care who's gay but don't want it being talked about then you need to stop talking about your wife and kids at work because that tells me you are heterosexual. If it is ok to talk about your wife then it should be ok for me to talk about my husband. You stop talking about it and then I will, too.
Patrick said "a heterosexual human being who is tired of all the forced acceptance the gay community forces on my life"
Patrick, for a person who holds personal responsibility as a high standard you aren't really taking responsibility for your own actions. You want the government to protect you in cases of media, etc. If you don't like something in the media, TURN IT OFF. No one is forcing you to watch TV, movies or read the newspaper or drive downtown during a parade. If you are teaching your kids responsibility yet you yourself neglect your control of the media coming into your home, you are a complete hypocrite as an adult and a parent. Good luck to your kids... they'll need it.
Besides keep your lifestyle to yourself and stop talking about your breeding program.
Gods, it makes me proud to be an American to finally live under an administration that actually has a soul.
Absolutely agree.
What does a religion belief system have to do with a genetic species anti-survival defect?
Uh, homosexuality is a consistent and common trait in every population of humans, and most species of other mammals. That means it's not anti-survival and it's not a defect.
Dennis - I understand the anti-survival concept, however, do not believe this to be biologically correct. animals share resources like food with their immediate genetic relatives. based on how close the genetic resemblance is the larger the fraction we are willing to share. Thus gay animals are less likely to reproduce but VERY significantly increase survival odds for offspring of closely related brother and sister progeny.
I find it an embarrasement myself , this tolerance crap sucks , and I'm done with it , gay should be considered a mental disorder , not a new class of human being
Yeah. Next you'll be saying black people should be kept in @!$%#ing zoos, John.
Just ignore John. He is a bigot and a homophobe, and the mods will probably deal with him.
There is not a single rational argument for why homosexuality is bad. Not one. I invite Spanky, JoAnna, and Madison to come here and do there best to prove me wrong. Which of course, they will not.
My next door neighbor is in love with her recliner. She demands special recognition.
well steve when her recliner goes through the painful labor of becoming an Ameican Citizen or even just an Fng human being with the ability to supply informed consent we will recognize that the relaitonship they hold is just as valid, worthwhile, and holy as anyone else's. Till then maybe you should take a logic class and realize how to anyone with an education who understand philosophy and logic you sound like a complete imbecile right now.
Arrogance......the dark side I sense in here.
Sorry to break the news to you.
The "SOUL" is on loan from Satan.
Touched off a nerve, did I, Ubersnoofer? You know nothing of what's valid, worthwhile and holy, and if you really know the sound of what's imbecilic, then you obviously have been reading your own comments out loud for a long time.
from the article--
I now officially like Pakistan..
Being sexually disoriented yourself, Tired, it's no surprise...
While Gays do deserve equal treatment under the law regardless of their country of origin, I find fault with Obama in that this is strictly a publicity stunt to further his far left agenda that in the end will his agenda will strip many American citizens of constitutional rights that conflict with the Democrat party.
I. E. The right to bear arms, not to mention forcing the middle class to pay for others health-care.
Folks irregardless of his public jargon, you can rest assure yourself he has a hidden agenda. That agenda is not in the best interest of hard working, tax paying middle, right and left US of America.
Milo, "irregardless" is not a word--it's a double negative used by people who are stupid. Also, "forcing the middle class to pay for others health-care" is not a constitutional issue as you imply.
There is nothing far left about human rights. Your thoughts are a mess. Just stick to the subject.
Milo - nice piece of point missing, there. Actually, "Obamacare" does the exact opposite of forcing anyone to pay for anyone's health care. It makes people responsible for their own (penalizes if they don't have it). Currently, most Americans who can't afford health care don't have it, so they get treatment and stick taxpayers with the bill. So, in a way, the current model does what you are accusing Obama of doing. See, you learned something today?
As for the right to bear arms, I wish people would just shut the he11 up about guns. Seriously. Who the he11 cares? So many crucial issues to deal with, and you're going to screech and howl about someone taking away your assault rifle?
Stupid you say, LOL Try sticking to the subject yourself. Calling anyone stupid, speaks of you own lack of self esteem and most of all your own stupidity.
Actually I like D** S*** like your self, your condescending attitude is entertaining.
Why? you find self esteem/self worth in belittling others by pointing out minor grammar errors and such.
You sound like a very negative person yourself.
As for paying for others, I say yyou liberal Dumbocrats are in for a hard lesson. I for one intend to block your freebie agenda every step of the way.
Working for a living is guite the liberating experience, try it.
goparefools
A Proffesser of logic, you are not.
David in Boston-1546942@ First issue is how do you figure anything is a "right". Its a nice gesture to donate to help others, but when you steal from one person that is indeed a leftist agenda. Working to pay your own way is a right in a capitalist economy, stealing the results of someone elses work is not. As I said, helping others is civilized but theft whether by individual or government is wrong.
Coming from someone who can't spell professor, I think I'm alright.
goparefools
Oh darn another insecure English professors scolding! Oh darn do I get 50 demerits. Oh I know your reward, is that you feel better about yourself.
Congratulations Professor. NOT, your just another Pin Head, self righteous Pin Head feeding off of those that you feel superior to.
Not self-righteous at all, I just hate it when bigots deny PEOPLE basic RIGHTS because of their prejudices. Nothing wrong with that, is there? Nothing insecure about me, my friend, I could give a rat's behind whether you're a better man than me, again, I just hate it when people without a clue lord over others with their misinformation and prejudice.
goparefools
Your spewing at the wrong person, I simply disagree with Obombos agenda.
What agenda?
milo - why must standing up for equality be a leftist publicity stunt? i think standing up for basic civil rights is just a good thing to do, but since obama is doing that the entire right wing will denounce his actions as a "publicity stunt". so ridiculous. i would also like to hear what you have to say about this "hidden agenda" you speak of and what exactly that entails
also, what indication has there been that he is going interfere with your 2nd amendment rights? if you actually believe that then you should start hoarding weapons in preparation for the final battle against the government like all the other tim mcveigh wannabes out there. although based on your incoherent ramblings youve probably already started doing that
Nicely said papag. And, as much as I am standing up for gay people's rights, and pushing back against empty Obama-slagging, I do think it's a bit hollow for the US to be talking about gay rights when gay people can't even get married in the US. Still, every little inch in the evolutionary ladder helps.
Milo, when you say terms like "Dumbocrats" and "Obombo", you instantly lose all credibility. Face it: you have no argument. All you do is personally attack those who validly refute your faulty "points".
Obama has never tried to do any of the things you accused him of. I'm not saying he's uninsultable, but exaggerating facts without basis is not arguing.
But I don't feel sorry for you. No, I feel sorry for the 4 (3, if you voted for yourself) people who actually up-voted your comment.
Toasty if you believe that, I have either desert and or swamp land to sell you on the cheap. Its guaranteed to make you rich.
Milo-2 who'd you buy that desert/swamp from? You said you already own it. Do tell.
GR0ND
Nice try Numb, Numb.
Obviously a direct hit.
Just because you bought into the religious right wing jebus cult, don't expect us to buy the swamp you got stuck with...by your own admission.
Your infatuation with the JEBUScult/crowd is you problem. The swamp metaphor was just that a metaphor.
Keep it real Sparky, I could care less that you are Gay.
I refuse to go along with the Obama Subterfuge.
Ops, If that is to big a word for you, just google it.
If its spelled wrong, Oh well deal with it.
The hell are you blathering on about now, Milo?
Well it certianly isn't denying Gay rights.
I have given you more credit in the past, you should see that Obama is on a political agenda for his own gain.
In a nut shell he could care less about Gay rights, he is like many other politicians. He will say what ever it takes to get re-elected.
If I were Gay I ***sure would't trust him past his teleprompter.
Take care Toasty
Our country has absolutely no credibility or respect left in the world! The world is falling apart and this "big eared" imbecile seeks to push perversion on the other nations of the world! There are many nations in our world that do not condone perversion and they have every right to continue to treat homos as they wish, to hell with progressives that condone filthy acts against nature, acts against decency, and indecent acts against humanity! How can we legalize "acts" that are against the law to be shown in public? Every human should have to watch the actual act, with all its' filth, pain, and repulsiveness and then let them decide if they desire if they want this mess taught to their children as a viable lifestyle!
You think heterosexual sex is really any different? Legal, I think you're the filthy act against nature. Now be a good 'ol boy and get back to that backwoods shack of yours before night falls and the bigfoot gits ya.
The other nations of the world embrace homosexuality, allowing marriage, military service, adoption, elected leaders...oh...you mean those Islamic nations don't like it.
And you think we'd be much better off if we were more like those countries? Kill the gays, women can't work, drive or even show thier face and everybody under the thumb of the high priest. I hope everybody in Texas isn't as stupid as that.
I am not aware of ANY culture that condones what is clearly an unnatural act. Religion has nothing to do with it.
legaltexasbigot, people should have to watch the act? You mean gay people living as a couple, raising kids, paying taxes, going to movies and restaurants, saving for retirement, etc? Ewww! Or, do you mean that people should be forced to watch gay sex? I don't know you, but I'm pretty sure watching you and the missus bump uglies would turn me off solid food for a while too. You don't want to watch gay sex, stop downloading it. Once you get past what gay people do with their genitals, maybe you'll have the capacity to start talking about their rights as people.
Why when someone does not agree that homosexuality is normal do people post issues of womens rights, bring up past issues, and lump it with issues entirely different and not related?
Goparefools- You are the one obsessed with your genitals not Legal Texanlegal, he is pretty clear on what he thinks and your the one that is phobic about his opinion. There is absolutely no medical evidenc supporting that anal sex is natural. NONE
American mom, I am calling him out for making the issue about sex, and you think I have the problem? Wow. Why not just call me a stupid-head and plug your ears and stamp your feet? Anal sex may not be natural if reproduction is the sole purpose of becoming a couple, but plenty of straight people do it, too. Oral sex is reproductively unnecessary, so I guess unnatural, but it's okay for straights to have at 'er? Intimacy and sexual gratification is an essential part of forming bonds as a couple. That is perfectly natural. You're not OK with the back door, that's fine. Don't do it. Also, a funny aside, did you know that a huge number of straight christian kids do it in the back door because they think they will get to keep their virginity, and Jesus won't cry? Then they go and get a bunch of STIs or STDs because their bigot parents refused to let them have any sexual education (knowing about your body is a tool of the devil, or progressives, apparently). Funny, eh? Your kids are probably doing the stuff you condemn gay people for.
Until now, the Bostonians I've met seemed to be pretty intelligent. And then David in Boston came along. This certainly is a leftist party game our President is playing. Just buying more votes to continue his assault on this country.
goparefools where so you get the authority to speak for straight christian kids? Do they tell you this or is it assumed because many gays hate religious people apparently because they feel unaccepted by the church. So again where did you pull this information from.
I worked as a nurse for 18 years and I am here to tell you I can't come up with one straight christian kid from our community that had STD's, anal tears, or anal sphincters that were stretched.
To clarify my stance, I think what 2 consenting adults do in their bedroom is up to them and as far as I am concerned keep it there. If you choose an alternative lifestyle because that is exactly what it is, then don't try cramming it down my throat and try to convince me that it is natural because there is no medical evidence that it is. I also don't need to march in a parade to prove or convince my community that I am normal. Nor do I have to announce my sexuality to convince myself that I am normal. I completely agree that it is inappropriate to teach this to elementary kids and parents should have the right to review any materials their child will be taught on ANY issue and opt out if they choose.
I am also tired of the spotlight being on kids who commit suicide that are gay, far more kids who aren't gay commit suicide from bullying. Gay children are equally as important as straight children, not more important. All bullying needs to stop.
American mom, why do you people need to make sex the issue. Look at posts here, and on Fox News. It's all about sex. No one talks about the horror of a gay man borrowing library books using his partner's card. No one gets all in a lather about a gay woman wanting to sit in the hospital room as her partner of 30 years dies of cancer. Guess what, SHE CAN'T! She isn't allowed to comfort her dying life partner! Because Of PEOPLE LIKE YOU who pretend that they don't care what them gays do, as long as they keep it in the bedroom.
No, no, y'all rail and screech about the perversion, and the oiled up bodies and the short shorts. Gay people CAN'T GET MARRIED. They can't get the same rights straight people take for granted, and many misuse.
As for god's chosen people and the highway, try this:
"Several studies have found that many teenagers who consider themselves true to their virginity pledge still engage in anal or oral sex. Since they don't believe that these forms of sex affect their virginity, teens don't worry that they might violate their pledge.
Furthermore, at least one study has found that teenagers who have engaged in oral and/or anal sex, but not vaginal sex, were more likely to have taken a virginity pledge. This may be one explanation for why that same study of virginity pledges found that pledgers have similar STD rates to those who don't.
Not surprisingly, since virginity pledges are often a component of abstinence-only education, it was also found, in at least one study, that individuals who take virginity pledges are less likely to use condoms the first time they have intercourse than those who don't pledge."
Brückner, H. and Bearman P. "After the promise: the STD consequences of adolescent virginity pledges" Journal of Adolescent Health 36 (2005) 271–278.
Nicole Stone, "Oral sex and condom use among young people in the United Kingdom" Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health (2006) 38(1).
Lisa Remez "Oral Sex Among Adolescents:Is It Sex or Is It Abstinence?"Family Planning Perspectives (2000) 32(6):298-304.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Sexually Transmitted Disease Surveillance 2005 Supplement, Gonococcal Isolate Surveillance Project (GISP)Annual Report 2005. Atlanta, GA: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, January 2007.
Actually soutenly, I'm straighter than you could ever aspire to be. Straight enough that I have absolutely no qualms about gay people having every bit the same rights I do. Remember back when inter-racial marriages weren't allowed? I am sure if these chat board has existed then, you would see some atrocious opinions here regarding the colored man defiling good white women, and god's wrath and so on. You can mock me all you want, in the morning when I wake up, I will be an accepting person who wants people to be judged as people, while you will be a petty, bitter bigot who wants to hide behind your mock horror at what "them gays is doing." All the gay couples I know are decent, loving people, who get treated like CRAP by you christians. Shame on all of you.
goparefools- Back off bucko I already stated what you do in your bedroom is up to you as long as the other adult is consenting to the same. I really do not care nor do I need you to tell me anymore than you want to hear about what happens in my bedroom. Problem is I don't tell but gay people seem to think telling will make it normal...it is not normal sorry.
I have argued til I am blue that I will never support gay marriage...not ever. Marriage is the union of a man and a woman under god and just cause it does not fit your agenda or what you want the majority of people to believe and accept as normal your not going to dominate and change what I think and believe. My religious beliefs and the core values of what I believe is the foundation for family and hold dear are at stake here. I have a right to my convictions and you do not have the right to force me to alter them to suit you. Go ahead and do what ever you feel froggy to do in your own bedroom and choose whatever partner you wish to reside with but I do not want to hear about it nor do I think that the gay population have the right to have homosexuality taught to our children in the elementry schools when sex education isnt taught to them until middle school because it is not considered age appropriate until then. Something wrong with that dont ya think? to young to learn about their own bodies and hetrosexual sex until HS but old enough to learn that homosexuality is ok in elementary school...WOW F---ed up or what!
I am in FULL support of allowing a civil union between gay couples. That union should include the rights that a married couple have. No I dont think a gay person should be told they cant be present if their partner is sick and/or dying. In fact I have never heard that the patient does not have the right to choose who sits beside them. The patient has very clear rights. As far as most legal issues their are powers of attorney, beneficiary rights etc... that do allow gay couples to have rights from their partners.
As far as your knowledge of teen sex let me help you along there. Oral sex is what they are doing to remain virgins and studies show that the majority are opposite sex couples doing this. The minority are gay teens and as far as anal sex thats where the majority of that behavior lies as well, with the gay teens.
An atheist teabagger? Quick, guys, make a wish!
Mom - Back off? Hey, I'm not the one making this topic about what gay people do to get off, y'all are, I am just throwing it back at you.
Civil unions should include the same rights, but do not. Not even close. That's the problem. Some of the rights can be sued for, or petitioned for, but they have to go get a lawyer. Some hospitals still, as a matter of course, won't let "them dirty gays" be the next of kin. A gay person who has a civil union in one state is not "cilvilly unionized" in the next state, so as long as they stay home, they are legitimate. Ridiculous.
Straight people get these rights IN ALL CASES, even when a couple gets married for money, or divorces ten times and keeps marrying, or has multiple sex partners while married, or.... you get the idea. As long as the couple has different junk, god's OK? Please.
My wife and I weren't married in a church, or by a religious figure. Does this mean I'm not married? My dad and his wife were too old to start a family, so their marriage isn't for procreation. Does this mean they're not really married?
The only mention I have given about what gay people do in their bedrooms is in response to the jackass comments from some of your brethren here. If we're going to talk about the real issue, gay rights (please, let's just stop bringing up the bedroom... can conservatives PLEASE stop talking about gay sex?!), then there is a discussion to be had.
Context is everything. A parent with a huge prejudice towards gay people will make up all kinds of crazy stuff about "them gays" coming to teach kids how to be gay, when the school district probably just wanted to take a step towards inclusiveness, and invite a gay couple in to describe their lives. Just like straight couples. Nothing to fear here. Yet, somehow, it gets distorted to the gays coming to talk about anal sex and show the kids a live sex show. Its ridiculous.
Y'all get so hung up on what gay people do in bed that you refuse to see that these are people who just want to be left alone, once they have the same rights you do.
And what the he11 do you mean about gay people pushing to get "the gay" taught in schools? It is an evolved, inclusive school district that wants to teach kids that gay people are in your community, they are nothing to fear, move along. If the next generation can unlearn some of what the current generation is teaching them, there is a hope that the country can aspire to something approaching a christian ideal.
I think it is perfectly OK for kids to have age-appropriate information about sex (how to avoid being victimized, what is bad touching, how to respect their bodies, etc, then moving on to what kinds of couples are in your community, then moving on to biological functions when kids get old enough that they need to protect themselves). That isn't a live sex show for first graders, that is common sense. Parents clearly aren't doing the job, and they sure as hell ain't getting it from their pastor... so....?
Sad you seem to believe you have the handle on what American parents should but arent teaching their children. It is their children and they, not you, have the right to decide what and when to teach their children. As far as bringing a couple into the classroom to let them explain their lifestyle to the kids it is up to the parent to approve that. Not you or the school. Do you see them bringing in hetrosexual couples and doing the same? No. Do elementary children need to think about what life style they will choose? NO. Should they start considering what sex they will consider as their life partner? NO. Do you give a rip about the emotional well being or confusion this may cause a child that age who is going home to Mommy and Daddy and does not understand or is emotionally capable of sorting it out that Mommy and Mommy came to school to say that this is how couples should be? NO. What a shame it is that you see that as a positive thing. I completely disagree with you. Leave the frickin kids alone.
Another thing is that you continue to speak out against it being distingusished as a sexual difference in the bedroom. What the hell is it if not a sexual difference. Humor me here but the only thing that distingishes a homosexual or heterosexual couple is that heterosexual couples have sex with opposite sex partners and homosexual couples have same sex partners so how do you leave sex out of it?
Wow, soutenly, you sound like a real charmer. Your post shows you to be so unbelievably bitter, it's kind of sad. What happened to you, man?
Also, seriously, you're going to whip out your salary? Tiny junk, or something? At ease, buddy.
I am an Enemy of America (TM)? Man, your irrational wholesale hostility is what's wrong with America today. It ain't me, skippy. I am one of those liberal bleeding hearts who wants the country to look out for each other, be inclusive and treat each other with respect. My sole axe to grind is with bigots, but I think that's fair.
Seriously, man, I think you need to have a good talk with someone about your bitterness before you end up in a bell tower exercising your completely misinterpreted second amendment rights.
Mom - I am assuming you're married. What percentage of your day do you spend having sex? Small percentage, I'd wager. Your married life is full of stuff like paying bills, raising kids, getting haircuts and buying cars. Why... WHY?!?!?!?!... must you bring it back to sex for gay people? WHY!!!!!???? Just leave the issue alone. Can you seriously drop it? Do you think gay people spend the whole day dancing around in short cutoffs and shiny muscle shirts and having sex?
I know you know this, but I'll play along anyway. The reason straight people aren't brought in to discuss their lives is because straight people don't need to overcome massive prejudice and misinformation. Married people are the norm, so most kids understand straight couples. If kids' understanding of gay couples is the ridiculous bile their parents spew, then it is important to de-stigmatize gay relationships for kids to be more aware and informed.
If parents are given an opportunity to go to the school and yell and tip over tables about "them gays" coming in, that is actually a symptom of the disease that these exercises in inclusiveness are trying to reverse. One step forward, two steps back.
I think helping kids understand that gay people aren't the cartoon demons their parents want them to be IS positive. How could it not be? And if a classroom full of kids learns that gay people aren't the devil, the one or two kids who might be gay don't need to feel like they are evil, the kids in their class won't give a rat's behind if they find out their classmate is struggling with their sexual identity, and no one gets beat up for being a "faggot." That's bad? Seriously? Wow.
Well hell then if you want them to be raised with the sole intention to make sure they don't have the ideals of their parents then all heterosexuals who have children maybe should have them ripped away so we can teach them all that homosexuality is right and their parents ideals are wrong. Wow talk about a man on a mission. Who do you think you are deciding what parents should teach their kids? Just because someone does not agree with homosexuality you have some warped ideal that parents teach hatred and prejudice rather than simply stating that these people live differently than we do withour hatred involved. Not possible in your world huh?
I do agree with teaching tolerance and strongly support a no tolerance policy for ANY bullying of ANY cchild for ANY reason but you again have placed the gay childs well being as more important than the kid with red hair who is beat up daily trying to walk home because of his hair color. Hell he isn't gay so get to the back of the line right? Cold day in hell that I will support one form of bullying as being more important than another. Seriously? WOW?
I think you need to read many posts on newsvine and realize that many gay people are very prejudiced toward christians. You want to talk about hatred. I am certain you see that as being fine because those big bad christians don't agree with gay marriage. Thank you so much you have deepened my convictions and beliefs further.
No, the gay child's well being should be no higher than the straight child's, but it should be no lower. This is what I am fighting for. No fewer rights for straight people to live as they wish, provided their lives don't limit others' rights. The point is that gay people are overcoming enormous prejudice, and straight people are not.
Once it doesn't matter AT ALL whether a married couple is gay or straight, I think the work is done. Trouble is, there are still plenty of people in the US who get right uppity on the subject of colored people marrying white people, so... really... will we ever get there? Sad, really.
Are you seriously going to whine about gay people being prejudiced against christians? Do you not know why? Honestly? If I had been subjected to systemic hatred, and being told I am going to hell, and am diseased and am destroying america, by a group of people who figure they have the market cornered on righteousness, I'd have a chip on my shoulder too. So would you. If you say you wouldn't resent it, you're lying. If Muslims were the majority in the US, and their lives were dedicated to stamping out the dirty Christians, would you be prejudiced against Muslims? Oh, wait, most Christians already ARE!
Please, don't even pretend to play the victim on that one.
I know many christians who are really cool, loving accepting people. I hate bigots. I have said that about five times now. Seriously, I don't care if you're a christian, a muslim or a rastafarian. You want to deny a person's rights because of what you believe, it's a problem. Point out where I said I hate christians.
First of all christians I know do not call names and treat gays badly. Depends on your interpretation of christians. Westboro church members are not christians by the standard. Saying so does not make it so.
I don't hear any nasty things about interracial marriage. My family is interracial consisting of almost every race and a gay person. I live up north, maybe down south there is a problem but then some southern people still have a confederate flag flying (war ended guys)
Also shame on you for supporting prejudice against christians. Their core value is opposite sex marriage, family, and values. So I believe they have the right to that. I also think most christians support legal unions with the marriage rights but do not agree with them being called marriages because that forces them to leave what their core values are and they should not have to. A compromise is fair and both get what they want. To expect the religious people to walk away from their beliefs is ludicrous. I can love my gay grandchild even though I don't agree with homosexuality. Nothing will change my love and support for her. We can disagree but go on and she will always be a part of my life.
Finally, I do not like that you entire agenda is gay rights at all costs. You don't care about anything else or who you run over to get there. You are trying to act third party sticking up for homosexuals but your third paragraph indicates you have possibly have experienced that ridicule and I question if you did not experience it then where did you witness this or did you just accept that it happened because someone said it did?
I am not a victim and never claimed to be one. I also never said "you"hated christians unless you have placed yourself in the gay population I spoke of. You playing with martyrdom here not me. I am comfortable with who I am, my life, my family, my beliefs, and I don't have to agree with homosexuality to be a decent person and treat everyone with respect.
My entire agenda is not about gay rights, it just happens to be the topic here. Gay rights at all costs? What are the "costs"? I want gay people to be able to live their lives with no one giving a second thought to whether or not they are gay. I want them to be just as married as a straight person. Who am I running over? Bigots? Fine.
Like I said, I know all kinds of great christians. I also know all kinds of great gay people. I know plenty of jerks in both camps too. People are people. My evidence for christian bigotry and hate is in chat boards like this one and on Fox News. People have the benefit of anonymity, so they can be as mean-spirited as they want, and don't have to pretend to be better people than they are, like when they are face-to-face with someone else.
Again, my marriage wasn't in a church. Is my marriage worth less than yours? If a gay person calls their union a marriage, does it also devalue MY marriage, or is mine already devalued because I wasn't married in a church?
Re-read my post. I'm not advocating prejudice against christians, I just understand why a persecuted group would be. I'm not persecuted, never have been. I was lucky. You're misinterpreting my post.
But you aren't treating everyone with respect, are you? Gay people. How about gay people? You don't want their dirty little lives discussed in front of children, you don't want them to sully the word "married" or have the same rights as you. Pat yourself on the back all you want, but you are prejudiced, and you aren't treating everyone with respect. You may have a gay grand daughter, and she would likely be incredibly offended by your attitude. You may love the relation, but you are skipping past the complete person.
A woman in my dad's bible study group was the most offensive homophobe I had ever met. She thought all the gays should be rounded up and sent to jail for reprogramming. Guess what? Her daughter came out. After a few months of "soul-searching," and meeting her daughter's partner, and going to their wedding, and being given a grandchild, and seeing their commitment and the fine, decent, loving people they are, she changed her mind. Completely. Now THAT is treating everyone with respect.
I feel no ill will towards you personally. I'm sure you're a fine person. i do have trouble with how casually people turn gay PEOPLE into caricatures, and dehumanize them. That makes me mad, because it isn't right, it isn't fair... and it certainly isn't christian.
Let me clarify something for you, you are for gay rights at all costs. Children are taught certain things at certain ages because they can only handle certain subjects at certain ages. You nor the schools have the rights to decide that for parents. You assume that my disagreement is based on their "dirty" little lives being discussed in front of children. That was your description not mine. Mine is based on the rights of parents to teach their children and the emotional well being of what age children should be taught.
You only support those that agree with your views, you are unable to see that there are many levels and people do not have to agree to respectfully co-exist. I do have to comment on your description and comparison to Muslims. Way to funny, do you have any knowledge at all of Islamic laws? For someone who is supporting gays rights I would think that they would be the last group of people you would use for example as every gay person in this country would be executed. Why did you even use that example? Are Christians in the wrong for being concerned about a belief that you can kill your children if they dishonor you, stoning people for adultery, killing gays and christians, multation of disobiedient women? You see that as an equal comparison to a christian not agreeing with homosexuality?
I did not say marriage had to be in a church but the traditional marriage for christians is the union of a man and a woman not same sex couples.
Finally, I do not need to pat myself on the back. As I stated I am comfortable with who I am, I rent my rental property to people including gay couples. My granddaughter knows exactly what I believe and why. I have met her significant other and even though I completely do not agree with homosexuality I will not turn away from her or exclude her. You can interpret it for what you want but I do know the complete person and we have no problems with respecting the differences in our beliefs and I did not incinuate that she was anything less than a great person. You did.
MN American Mom agree totally.
In America marriage is a secular legal contract. What you do in the privacy of your church is irrelevant to your marital status. And FYI, not all Christians are bigots like you - many denominations have no problems with gays and recognize same-sex marriage.
Let me clarify something for you. I did talk about age-appropriate content, didn't I? For example:
At age K-3, teach kids that their bodies are their own, avoid bad touch, be respectful of themselves and others, understand that all people are different in some ways, the same in some ways, know how to eat, wash, take care, etc
Grade 4-6, many kinds of families in the neighborhood, straight, gay, religious, non-religious, black, white, Muslim, Jew, etc. All should be judged on who they are.
Grade 7-12, human sexuality - how to protect themselves, understand risks of all kinds of behavior, know what rape is, know how to avoid exploitation. In this discussion, there would be some discussion of different kinds of sex, as kids WILL start experimenting at this age. Informed is armed.
Does that concern you? Am I the boogeyman? Schools need to form their curriculum because some parents will hide from the discussion and NEVER tell their kids anything, some will tell their kids to go hassle the fags, some will do their job properly and educate their kids well. The risk is that the kids who learn nothing, or learn bigotry, infect the others, sometimes figuratively, sometimes literally. Ignorance is dangerous when kids hit puberty.
When you throw around words like natural and normal, you do condemn even the people you love, as you are appropriating those words to define what you are, not what they are. You can love your GD, and I have no question that you do, but she knows you condemn something of what she is. There is no escaping that. You can rent to the gays, you can sell popcorn to the gays, but the truth is, you think the gays are flawed and need saving. This is ugly.
Traditional marriage for christians may be man and woman, but marriage isn't a christian word. I am not christian, but I will happily give the word marriage to gay people, and I have as much right to do so as you do.
I support all kinds of different views. I have never told anyone not to believe in god or Jesus. My dad's an evangelical. I love my dad. What I don't support is when people's individual views deny others of their rights. I couldn't be more clear about that.
Did I champion Islamic fundamentalists' treatment of gays? No. Don't put words in my mouth. I am saying if Christians spent their whole lives feeling persecuted, they would resent their oppressor, just like gay people do towards Christians who persecute them. not all christians do, but if you read the postings on this board, lots of the most hateful stuff comes with an "Approved by God" stamp.
Hmmm ... change "homos" to "Christians", "Jews", "Blacks." I suppose you're still comfortable with your statement?
Whew! Lots of comments! gopare fools (is there more than one of you in there?), you are one sick puppy! If you think teaching little kids that homosexuality is normal, you've fallen off your track! Mention the word, "homosexual" to a little kid, and WHAT DO YOU THINK THE NEXT QUESTION WILL BE? What's the difference? Then, you have to tell the kid the only basic difference is SEX! Most parents want to PROTECT their children from lifestyles that are against what they believe in, and shouldn't they have that right? I'm not calling them "gays" anymore, because I haven't found one that is happy, so they need to find a better word. Don't take words out of the dictionary, and change the meaning to suit such a small minority.
Christians should also have the right to bring up their children the way they see fit, and NOBODY should tell them they must abandon the Bible just because it doesn't jive with the homosexuals. Our Bible tells us that homosexuality is displeasing to God, and that we are to refrain from it, or encouraging it, or AGREEING to it. You can call us anything you wish, but you won't stop us from believing what we believe.
I am ashamed of the United States for having such a wishy - washy president, who only appears to be interested in getting re - elected. It is NONE of our business what another country does with their politics, religion, whatever. That would be like me going to my neighbor's house and telling them they HAVE to go to church, or they HAVE to be Democraps, or what color they have to paint their house, or...... wait a minute - that's CC&R's! We already have some of that. But I understand why so many countries dislike the US - we think our lifestyle is the greatest, and everybody must live like we do. Hogwash! We are not what we used to be, that's for sure. We thrive on deciet, lies, greed, sexual immorality, perversion. We no longer represent the family unit, dedication to our country, "one nation under God". Because of all the "minority groups", everything we stood for is disappearing. Minorities shouldn't be attacking Americans - they should be going after the real bigots - in our government - the ones who won't support the Constitution or the Bill of Rights. Under those two documents, EVERY person born or naturalized in the United States has the same rights as everybody else. Period. Fight for that, and stop embarrassing the rest of us. No government can function when it is not supporting "government by the people, for the people", and is instead supporting "government by the minorities, for the minorities". It was intended to cover the GENERAL portion of the American people, which we ALL are.
Well stated Bill!
Bill - do you think the next question needs to be how gay people have sex? Do you really think a kid in grade three wants to know what gay men do in bed? Is it not possible to tell a little kid that sometimes a man and man can love each other, and sometimes a woman and a woman can love each other, and they can want to be a family together? See how I didn't mention sex there? Again, why do you conservatives need to make this all about sex? Are you also horrified by lesbians? They don't have sex the same way as gay men, does this also bother you?
The general portion of the population should not have the ability to deny the basic human rights of a smaller, yet still significant, portion of the population. No one is talking about taking anything away from straight people, I am simply advocating for straight people to stop interfering with gay people's lives, under the vague banner of religion or "that's yucky." Don't like the thought of gay men getting it on, stay out of their bedrooms.
As for teaching kids that there are gay people... ARE there gay people, yes or no? If you answered yes, we all have to "accept" (bad word, but you get the idea) that gay people are part of our communities. Statistically, some of the people you know are gay, they just don't tell you because they know you're an intolerant mess. I'll bet YOU haven't found any happy gays, since who would be happy around your poisonous attitude?
Did I ever say you need to abandon the bible? Read it all day, get your kids to read it all day. But when you pick and choose sections of the bible just so you can hate, your right interferes with someone else's right, that's being a bad christian. Besides, if you're going to be a biblical literalist, I sure hope you go around stoning adulterers and people who shave and eat shellfish (sounds almost as evil as the Qu'ran, doesn't it?), or you're a hypocrite and a weak-kneed christian. If you're going to limit rights and spew your bile, do it at all the identified targets.
One nation under god? Whose god? A Christian god? That excludes a lot of good quality people. That's why there is a separation of church and state. Always has been. Conservatives love to quack about the founding fathers and their bible study classes, but that's a fabrication to support religious intolerance.
You know, you talk about family... I have seen the most loving, caring parents in gay couples. You know why? For a gay couple to have a kid, they have to walk through fire, deal with public vitriol, and find alternate ways to conceive. Straight folk only need a back seat and six pack of Pabst Blue Ribbon. If a gay couple has a kid, you KNOW they want to be parents enough to endure people like some on this board, and I would rather have my kids raised by someone like that than some douche who has kids he doesn't even want just because he knocked up his old lady.
News flash - all politicians want to get re-elected. They have a social and economic platform that they run on, and unless they get tripped up by the other party and lobbyists, they want to see it come to fruition. That's what Obama is doing. That's what any president would be doing. It's bad because it's Obama, right?
goparefools- seriously?
Maybe your personal experience was beer guzzling back seat screwing but that is your experience and your opinion. Your responses indicate your agenda based on a personal not factual basis and certainly does not support that gays are automatically better parents. Guess I should leave out the guy who left his wife in my community with 3 kids they had together and hooked up with another man who left his wife and 1 son. It came out that the man with 1 son was using the son who was being sodomized by his own father and his father friends. Yup thats great parenting. I don't know about you but parents like that gay or straight need a bullet between the eyes period. Clean, quick, and permanent.
The difference is I am not ignorant enough to assume that all gay men would do this, not all straight men are bad parents either.
GoPare, unfortunately you can come up with all the logic in the world and until people are ready to cease being captive to their irrational fears it won't do an iota of good. I comend you for trying though. Let them be bigots, they're the minority and their viewpoint will soon be in the history books right next to Jim Crowe, those who opposed suffarage and micegenation laws. Continue to set an example for those who will listen and learn and you will accomplish more then all the hate in the world put together. You give me hope.
I agree with Bill about stealing words out of the dictionary and changing their meaning. Why not call them what they are, UNSTRAIGHT, or HOMOSEXUALS? Is what they are so abhorrent to them they have to call it something else to feel better about themselves. probably.
King Obama supreme ruler of the universe has demanded what?
I really don't mind gay people but as with religion don't force your views on others!!
dont force what views on others? you mean like innocent people should be allowed to live freely without being abused or killed because of their sexuality?
thats just deplorable that someone would try to force such a view on others...
Totally. Who are they to force their view that people shouldn't be attacked and killed for being born a certain way?
Being gay is strictly by choice, born with a hormone imbalance etc.. does not force you to be gay!
It is all about choice's and freedom and Obama could have asked others to consider his views.
Care to cite your reputable and peer-reviewed source that says it's a choice, Doctor Tim?
hey tim, do you make this little sense all the time or are you just @!$%#ing with us?
Papag, you're not helping.
What part is to hard for you to grasp?
Toasty cite what you will but your nonsense of it not being a choice is ignorant!
There is not a chance in the world that of a medical or genetic condition that a man needs or has to have another mans penis in some part of his body the same applies to women and their genitalia as well.
Just because some foolish study points to the fact that hormones are screwed up in some people that leads them to a predisposition of craving the same sex does not mean they don't have a choice. The only possible medical reason or cause would be mental, and we both no that is wrong as there is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing to be gay!
Tim,
There is no study that has been done that shows that homosexuality is a voluntary reaction. Heterosexuality is not a voluntary reaction (did you choose? I didn't.). It is not only "hormones" that are different. In homosexual women and heterosexual men, there are certain patterns of brain activity that are similar - as are patterns in heterosexual women and homosexual men. Homosexuals who realize their orientation later in life have EVERY incentive not to admit it (their marriages, their children, their jobs, their financial status, their religious affiliation, etc) and yet do so anyway because it is the only way they can live an honest, happy life - and they do so at enormous cost. No one would "choose" that.
If you truly argue that the "choice" is acceptable, well, you're on the path to understanding, but as long as you use the word "choice", you really lose your credibility. Your position is simply not supported by the evidence.
Tim Mic. since the gender of your sexual partner is a choice for you it means you're probably bisexual.
Not that there's anything wrong with that.
So since your sexual preference is not a choice we should now release all those poor pedophiles and rapists and well as for bestiality have at it.
I thought they had commited crimes but it appears our system is flawed all those poor people had no choice in the matter. Wrong sexual orientation is and always has been a choice.
Homosexuality has existed since the dawn of mankind not only in humans but other animals as well, also masturbation has been an issue and occurs in many species.
My thought as origanally posted was Obama has no right to demand that other nations be tolerant of our supportive of gay people, that is for them to decide after he states his opinions on the matter.
You certainly did not hear him demanding that the perverted Arabs stop marrying little girls, he did not even politely ask them to stop.
So, am I to understand that you will not be supporting your views and statements with evidence and citations, Tim?
Tim, comparing homosexuality to pedophilia, rape, and bestiality is outright wrong. You need to realize that there is an important distinction called "informed consent" that you can't get from kids, rape victims, or animals.
Consenting is making a choice do you understand the word choice.
I am not comparing homosexuality to those disgusting things but they are choices many people have made as well.
I believe you have every right in the world to choose to be gay.
Because you made that choice yourself?
keyword you
Tim, I take it you chose to be straight? When did you make that decision?
shrekk i take you chose to be gay did your priest help you with that.
more likely an "enlightened" plastic progressive, Micheal Jackson !!
Why would any have to choose to be normal? Before you reply check your dictionary for the definition of the word normal!
shrekk where did you go?
many straight people are hit an by homosexuals everyday some take great offense and get violent others say no and some well choose to give it a try.
Keyword choose!
Kids in school do have to choose, the term my kids tell me that bi-curiuos is the new thing at school so according to you if you try it and like it you were born gay and if ya try it and dont you were born straight? Oh wait ya cant do that that would be choosing.
Tim, Your views are so obscene that you appear to be a troll, someone who is purposely inflammatory, but your grade school grammar and spelling just makes you out to be an ignorant hick who has so little going on in his life that he has to feel better about himself by putting down those who are different.
A straight person who has no homosexual inclinations will not react violently to a gay person hitting on them, instead they will politely tell them that they are not interested. A repressed gay man may react violently when he is forced to address those taboo urges. Some may be out and will respond with interest. None of them are acting outside of their biology and none are making a conscious choice to be gay or not.
The attraction is not a choice but as always a person chooses whom they have sex with.
As for bisexuality, it is true that homosexuality is more favorable in the mainstream media and I can see it being cool to SAY you are bi, even though you are primarily interested in one or the other.
Sexual attraction isn't a dichotomy but is rather a sliding scale. Some people who are primarily homosexual in their attraction have a small amount of attraction to the opposite sex and similarly some who are primarily heterosexual in their attraction have a small amount of attraction to the same sex.
Mostly relationships are about who you can fall in love with and live happily with. I wouldn't be happy in a relationship with a woman, and I would probably resent her because I felt no physical attraction to her.
But then again these distinctions are very subtle, and I doubt your capable of grasping them.
My opinion is that it is a choice plain and simple grasp that fool
Your opinion is scientifically wrong, but that being said there are those out there that still believe in a flat earth.
Just because you need an excuse to be a queer does not mean it was not your choice and there is absolutely no proof you were born gay, scientific or otherwise. Calling someone you dont even know a hic and a troll proves your an idiot and a bigot.
Lol, no excuse needed, but all the credible medical associations in the United States have come out with statements saying that homosexuality isn't a choice and this includes the APA, and the AMA. But I'm sure these professionals with over 10 years of schooling don't know what they are talking about compared to you who has a degree in what exactly?
As for calling you a hick...I call them as I see them.
As usual, I suppose that my old age strongly influnces my attitude, but I am so very tired of listening to every group which does not qualify as WASP crying out for their "rights". Just join in the mainstream at work, in the neighborhood and in government, and everyone will be treated equally! This political correctness today is ridiculous!
You know what, your post is probably the most sensible one so far.
not true, babs. gay people can't marry. Just hanging out at the water cooler doesn't change that. It is their right. In supporting policies that ban gay marriage, you are denying them that right. Period.
Yeah Babs - Catholics and Muslims are not White Anglo-Saxon Protestants....so they should not deserve rights either......
Yeah Babs, I'm sure that if black people had just sat down and shut up, the white folks in Alabama would have happily given them equal rights.
Let me guess, Babs - you're a heterosexual white woman with no disabilities, right?
You're tired of political correctness? I'm tired of bigots who think that discrimination is perfectly fine.
you must be thinking that if we just do the same thing we did yesterday, that today things would be different. hmmmm.. sounds like an addict, or an insane person, same logic, just ask a counselor. If you are sooo tired of political correctness just think how sick and Fng tired we are of discrimination.
Thing is, Babs, the groups you're talking about already do this. They do it every single day, but they're still not being treated equally. And its because of attitudes like yours.
You know, if you're so tired of hearing people complain about not being treated equally I've got a solution for you: start treating people equally and they'll stop complaining about not being treated equally. It has nothing to do with being "politically correct", it has everything to do with doing the right thing.
"Just join the mainstream at work, in the neighborhood and in government, and everyone will be treated equally!"
Really? So then, why is that I, as a lesbian is the US armed forces, until December couldn't even think about living my life openly IN GOVERNMENT without risking my career? I do believe I have been gainfully employed since I was 16, live in a neighborhood (except for when I'm stationed overseas), and yet have had to hide my life from the people I work with for over a decade. How is that being treated equal?
And now that the DADT repeal is on its way to being implemented, well, I still don't have the equal right to marry the woman that I love. I will have to fight to prove that the children I hope to have one day rightfully are mine if my partner has them and we seperate (which I hope never happens). I still can't claim her on my medical insurance because, what do you know, even with the DADT repeal we still can't marry because the federal government won't repeal the defense of marraige act.
Tell me then, how this Land of the Free, Home of the Brave, country of Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness is equal when I, and so many other, tax-paying, hard working people can't just live our lives without people who have no role in our lives <i>dictating</i> how we are supposed to live our lives to <i>their</i> standards.
Humanity's joke, why don't you covertly destroy anyone that gets in your way?
Idaho Spud-1126196@ nawww wont happen.
Thank Darwin that Obama's a one-term lame duck! Maybe in 2012 we'll get someone with the guts and intelligence to realize you simply cannot please everyone no matter how hard or deep you bend over without destroyed what you supposedly stand for - the United Stated of America.
Exactly, I wish he had said piss off to the repubs and plowed ahead with a public option, gay marriage, etc. That's what you get for trying to reach across the aisle, when those on the other side are nothing more than hateful, self-interested pawns of the Kock brothers.
The more time Obama spends on this stuff just reduces the time he has to do more damage to this nation. Now if we could only get him to extend his South American spring break family vacation!
Ron, grow up. You know just as well as everyone else that all Obama's done in the last year is fix the problems your guy caused.
President Obama has fixed problems? That's a new one.
Stopped Bush's depression for one.
stopped Bush's and about to start one of his very own.
Busiest administration in more than 50 years, but then he's commie Muslim-Hitler... or is it commie Hitler-Muslim.... I can never remember...
Yes.....his administration and czars are definately busy. I bet we don't know half of what they have planned. It's gonna be an interesting couple years.
yeah, you can't please everyone without destroying america, especially those ever-destructive queers. how dare he try to appease them and their queer world-domination agenda.
you realize he really wasn't behind gay marriage until his poll numbers started tanking? His new, improved stance on gay rights is the least of my worries.
Except of course for his 1996 statement where he fully supported marriage equality.
Just like a crafty politician does.
Homosexuals are sick. Obama is grandstanding.
Dude, grow up...
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yup
Most of you are just prejudice you believe that the world revolves around you and what crap you think of is gospel. Gays are people they are not animals that you control. Who are you to say that only men and woman can be married? I am not gay I have a bi-sexual son so in your foolish eyes I should disown him what a crock. Maybe you should be judging yourselves instead of trying to judge someone elses life. Mind your own business and allow them to be AMERICANS!
the problem is dehlyn the gays make it our problem , and I also read some gay up there somewhere using animals in his arguement , something about same sex animals doing eachother , so urge them to stop using the animals as cover
I'm sorry John, I thought human rights were ALREADY everyone's problem.
How is it your problem John? Out of all the post that I have read not one person is asking you to join, or ask you out, or said anything to you to make it your problem. The problem here at the moment is you and the ones that talk like you. You have a problem with this site leave it is that simple. No, telling me to leave won't work cause I do not have a problem.
John, the argument about animals was demonstrating that homosexuality is not some strange human concept - virtually all mammals have been observed exhibiting homosexual behaviors. Scientific fact.
I guess there are SO many ignorant ppl in the world that they do NOT understand that being gay is NOT a choice...and their ignorance shows when they talk religious nonsense to back up their misguided views! If God is perfect and makes NO mistakes, then who is man to say that he did. Stop the ignorance, torture and killing of innocent ppl!
Raymond I do not think it matters what the good lord says at the moment he is not here. We are here no god is going to fight for this we have to do the best we can. Allow the fools against to dig their own graves, this America land of the free home of the brave.
It is a disease and should be treated as such, just as people being born with cancer or heart defects, mental retardation or other disease.
Sorry Sheep, but no doctor thinks it's a disease. Not unless left-handedness or dark skin is too.
My son is not sick, nor is he a mental case. It is prissy people such as you that make up crap and say it is Gospel. Get your own life and allow others to live theirs.
Of course it is a disease. What is it about creating life do you not understand? However, the good side of this is if everyone would be born homo, from today forward, life will cease to exist, and this is the only exciting thing to come from being born a sexual mishap.
Do people who are left-handed have a disease too, sheeps? Or did they just choose to be born like that?
Sheeps is talking out his rear, he has no clue about this subject. And the ones that agree with him are an insult to this human race. You know the kind no backbone,stab their own mother in the back,whiny,snivaling,complaining, know it alls.
Very soon, incest will be legal. You will be able to marry your own daughter or son. The earth will become void of any self restraint or morality. I'm old and thank god everyday that my life is almost over. Homosexuals do not want to find a cure for their disease. And for loren, people are born with cancer and other diseases also, and we don't try to conceal this fact by calling it normal.
Yeah, that's where we're going, grandpappy. Sheesh. There's no pill for "ignorant hillbilly" either, yet we tolerate you.
YEE HAW! On Halloween, we'll be able to pump-kin!
First off, who cares what two consenting adults do? Second off, if homosexuality is a disease, then so is left-handedness. Should we deny them civil rights as well? Last I checked, they don't want a "cure" for their "disease" either.
Nobody cares what they 'do'. I just don't think we should justify it by trying to call it normal and allow them to equate it to my marriage when it's not the same. Be happy with 'civil union/domestic partnership' it gives them all their equal rights. In high school, girls have to play on the 'girls team' because they are not boys. They don't go demanding' equal rights' because they have the SAME THING.. it's just called something else. "A rose by any other name would still smell as sweet."
It is the same - exactly the same.
Too bad civil unions and domestic partnerships aren't recognized between states, by the feds or by other countries. They are most definitely not legally equivalent to marriage.
Laura, your girls team/boys team analogy is completely off point. I'm guessing you aren't an attorney? We separate by gender in sports because there are physiological differences between the sexes that directly effect our capabilities of playing those sports. Please, point out the phsyiological differences between gays and straights that make gays inherently less capable of maintaining a relationship? If you can do that, then your argument will be on point.
Homosexuals need support to work through their aberrant sexuality. Therapy and counseling should be more available to help them.
They tried torturing them in South Africa. That didn't work either.
Shock therapy works wonders, especially when the electrodes are inserted anally.
Like I said, they tried that. It didn't work. It did rack them a crime against humanity though.
You must have had it done to you. How many more treatments before that crap falls out of your head Brent?
Hey Dehlyn, I'm just cracking some jokes. I'm not particularly worried about who marries who, but it's nice to see who the knee-jerkers are. Come to Butt-head!
I do not mind a good joke Brent, but insults are not jokes. They are done by people who have nothing better to do than attack what they do not understand.
Wow! You really think that was an insult? I'm sorry your so sensitive. Who here really knows what I understand? You sure don't!
Yes I do Brent. And I am sensitive towords other peoples feelings. I will not go out of my way to make anyone feel bad unless it is to the people that are short sided, narrow minded, pitiful, foul mouthed,and spineless weasels that unfortunatly are in this country. Guess you are just one more.
I'm not gonna go into my background or lifestyle with you; it's really none of your business! Foul mouthed I may be, but short SIGHTED, narrow minded and spineless I definately am not. Try again!
But you put you nose in others business. What is the difference?
Exactly where have I meddled in another's business? Tell me something good.
Therapy to 'repair' homosexuality is more damaging than the homophobia that drives patients to seek it and is dissavowed and banned by every major 'professional' medical organization in the country.
Don't mess with Dehlyn. "My son Forrest is gonna have the same opportunities as everybody else."
Good, to see the US taking this step.... something to help offset the right wing preachers that went to Africa to help write constitutions calling for the death of gay people.
In no way is that what I said, hopefully you feel better with your rant.
This is a tiny step, beats the hell out of doing nothing.
It's a shame it didn't work out in Africa, we might not have the AIDS epidemic we have now..
You're calling for the execution of gays? You're a rather vile person, aren't you?
FYI, AIDS is overwhelmingly a straight disease in Africa and in the world overall, with 2/3rds of cases resulting from straight sex.
Laura-476504 I am seldom speechless....
As a gay, well educated, soon to be sworn in (to citizenship) legal permanent resident of this country I am proud to see what the president is doing. Until this year I was questioning if I should consider accepting american citizenship, after all why bother becoming a citizen if all I would be is a second class resident... Increasing levels of acceptance and positive political headway are giving me more hope.
For all those who question this action, and feel things are shoved down your throats; were you aware that less then a week ago a gay american philadelphian was stoned to death in Philadelphia? Were you aware that the reasoning used to justify this action was based on the old testament? I personally try not to judge people based on their faith, however, events like these frustrate me beyond believe. So lets just say that while some of you may feel that this is pushover and overly empathetic I think you got the easy side.... at least you don't get stoned to death for having a girlfriend, or asking someone out for a date.
As for the matter of biology choice and so forth... if you question the nature of my/our sexuality let me assure you it is not a matter of coice, nor is it an attempt to gain popularity or attention. None of these would be achieved by choosing to be gay. It is a matter of nature... Those of us who are out have the strength to stand up for what we are, others are afraid of standing out and deserve your help. You may perceive us as different. But we are just as loving and caring, we date and raise children. We serve on juries, support our armed services, run for offices, and support your rights. Is it really too much to ask for that we too are treated equal under the law. Is it really strange that I am highly upset about the fact that I can be fired in over 25 states for being gay?
When a gay man can get stoned to death in Philadelphia, can you imagine what the live of gay men and women is like in Turkey, Uganda, or the middle east? I think it is very appropriate to ensure that gay women and men in countries receiving U.S. aid are not mistreated based on their sexual orientation. When we support the schooling of women in the middle east why not also encourage them to embrace equality among different sexual orientations? Why not also broaden acceptance for the GLBT community? By pushing for acceptance and education we prevent problems before they arise.
What in the hell does a turkish prison have to do with this other than Turkey is one of those countries that needs to raise the bar when it comes to equal rights and so was likely a target of the resolution at the UN?
USE THE GRAY MATTER PLEASE*Ive been reading these comments that these people have been leaving concerning this issue and its very sad what this world is coming to...Noone really understands unless he/she is a homosexual...It is times like this that makes me ashamed to be an american.I am a 25 year old male who is proud to be gay and proud of the ones who arnt scared to stand up and fight for what they believe in...I live in a small country town in southeast texas,came out when i was 14 and been fighting for my right to love and live the way i feel is right between myself and GOD.Thats all that matters..My lifestyle is not a choice...Who would choose a life that is complicated to live?!I would just like to thank you all for actually understanding this subject and posting it for everyone ...they are just rediculous comments that dont make a bit of scence...anyway thank you....
Babs, gay people are killed in other countries. This isn't an issue of political correctness. And guess what? There are people in this world who aren't born white, Christian and in the US. Astounding, I know. Look beyond your nose. Congratulations on being ignorant, myopic, and out of touch.
Some people are so consumed with their own lust, they will not and cannot accept the truth about homosexuality as being abnormal, the same as child molesters, pedophiles, rapists, and people who have sex with animals, after all, these people believe they are normal as well, and will convince people that they are just as normal as anyone else. In doing so these acts will became acceptable and legal as well.
Is that what you're going to do every time someone defeats your argument, Sheeps? Just ignore it and start a new thread?
You can't defeat this argument. Go ahead, deny the truth.
And you have relative experience in all of these don't you sheep. To clarify you have done all that you have listed, or are you just lying to cover up your own whacked desires
You know guys, if we let gay people survive without being beaten or hanged, what next? Interracial marriages?
Damn sheep, you struck some nerves!
Well to all you that are against Gay marrige. It would be different if you knew what you were talking about. As it is though you have not the faintest idea why you are arguing you don't have any facts you just blurt out the first thing that enters your minds and you hope it makes you look good, but it only serves as too show how ignorant about this subject you really are. Have a nice day.
Dehlyn, the MORAL authority, has spoken. Heed this and OBEY!
Your offended cause I make sense and you "try" to be funny. Sorry sucks to be you.
yep.....Dehlyn is pretty damned amusing. You think I'm offended? Try again!
wow. you brent and corsair are a real bunch of bigots. And real @ssholes too. You have no concept of a polite dialogue. You're all three trolls on the level that rivals the rent trolls. NBC should gag you, you're not engaging in dialogue or free speech when you make these comparisons. They aren't logical, they are profane, and you treat this conversation about whether someone has the right to not be beaten to death for absolutely nothing more than being themselves as if it were a big joke. Screw you i hope you fall down some stairs and break your necks.
Uber, How much education did it take to learn the word "troll?" I bet it took quite a few years of classtime to learn death threats. In my four years of college, never was "Death Threats 101" offered as a course selection. Guess I should have reviewed the WHOLE catalog.
brent and corsair,
If you think interfering with a discussion with pointless comments is either funny or productive, that's just sad. Get a life and let people of actual wit debate the issues of the day. You're neither funny nor clever.
You're certainly entitled to your opinion MNWriter!
Remember: first they came for the Jews...
Imagine if liberals were to tell the Tea Party to join the 'mainstream' you'd have a field day declaring a violation of every freedom known to mankind. Yet, when President Obama sticks up for a minority in America, you are repulsed. Hippocrite.
It's kinda funny how President Obama didn't believe in gay marriage until it became politically expedient.
He's not talking about gay marriage here, Brent. He's talking about people not being killed or executed for being born gay.
you have a point there Toasty. I don't believe in one group of people singling out any other particular group for extermination. More power to him there, but nothing anyone tries to do will ever be able to eliminate hate.
No Brent, but we can crack down on the violence.
The only way that could ever be accomplished would be through reprogramming, like A Clockwork Orange, but on a global scale. Good luck with that utopian dream!
Obama first publicly supported marriage equality in 1996. His current ambiguous position appears to be so he can pick up a few votes from bigots.
the bitter clinger votes he's been trolling for?
Be Happy, Not Gay
Contradiction - gays (when they're not being discriminated against) are one of the happiest demographics in America.
That's why they so frequently commit suicide when they are outed.
This whole discussion reminds me of many years ago, the nudists were "coming out", trying to be allowed to be nude in public. They got nowhere, so formed their own hidden communities, out of sight of the general public, and have never been heard of again. Now, they have their own lives, and our respect. Why don't you homosexuals do the same?
Hey, Bill, why don't you bigots do the same?
I think it is very good that everyone has equal rights in this world, just cause one is either gay, bi or lesbian doesn't mean we don't love the same as straights love the opposite sex. We don't call y'all rude names like you all call us. It's called respect and equality
That's the thing, Jordan. They don't have equal rights in the world. These people are being jailed and executed for being born gay in many countries.
Your choice of homosexuality has nothing to do with respect and equality. Be happy, not gay.
Uh, Cal? It's not a choice. People are just born like that.
cal_culus is Bobby McFerrin in disguise. He's changed his tune from "Don't Worry, Be Happy!"
I guess I skipped the day they were handing out the "pick your sexual orientation" forms.
on the box where they ask sex, I say, "Hell Yeah!"
Here we go again...the phrase "gay rights" comes up and the holier-than-thous come out of the woodwork screeching that they're somehow being persecuted. (face-palm)
This one's my favorite: Gay Rights = Bestiality. Yes, because nothing says "equal rights" quite like f*cking the dog.
Here's another one: "Gays don't procreate, so it ain't right." Oh God, so that means these people ARE procreating? Now THAT ain't right!
LOL!
You know, Obama wasn't even talking about gay rights. He is just calling for the end of people being jailed and executed for being born gay. That's a human rights issue.